Top is option A who am currently with
B is an ex that popped back in
For context option an and I have been fighting quite a bit recently. Option b wants me back.
Question Is it to my highest good to continue dating a?
Is it to my highest good to restart dating b
My interpretation is that though things are unstable with my current person that I should stick with it and stability with come. This is also because the key is in there. The key to me is a yes.
For option b I see it is also good. The incense card is about clearing the air and talking about things which we did. The spirit card looking at the ring showing a cycle. Does it mean the same issues will come up or what?
Ooh, I love this and love seeing Rana's deck. And I love seeing a Decision Spread!
Option A: you might experience some repeat stress (Whip Mice), but this is the option to go with, this is the key (Key). The answer (Key) is to stay (Anchor) and try and renew/freshen things (Child). Getting the Key after the Mice actually shows you will have the solution to those stressors and little issues, creating newfound security (Anchor Child).
Option B: this one looks very temporary and just for the moment (Clover Incense Stork Spirit = fun or a fling that doesn't last and will lead to flying off and becoming unavailable), but you might actually find yourself coming back to this person like a karmic contract kind of relationship (Spirit Ring = a spiritual bond, a karmic cycle that you can't break, feeling pulled to leave and come back over and over again). The important thing with this option is it is for fun and for a certain purpose (Incense, Spirit), but it is not forever because of the Clover, the Incense, and the Stork showing the temporary aspect of this person in your life. But you will get into that cycle with that Ring... so be forewarned.
Thank you so much once again. I think I posted your reply as a fresh comment on the post.
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Thank you so much. Yeah am a HUGEEEE fan of Rana. She has a new book out that am ordering this weekend. Her first book is my Lenormand dictionary that’s why I was so confused with the key and anchor being there despite the fights. From the very beginning I kept getting the tree in this relationship. I will be patient and also try to be a little dispassionate to allow the relationship grow and settle. The relationship is quite new.
As for option B I was with this person for many years and we have had lots of breakups and getting back. Honestly I had misgivings about it cos of a spiritual sign I got when I met him again recently for the first time in years.
😊 Thank you so much. 😊
Oh wow! That you've already done the back and forth thing with Option B is just confirmation of more of the same. And on the surface, technically, option B looks better because it has no negative cards, but it just will not last and will be for some fun in the moment... Option A will have that Whip Mice cycle of some stress that repeats, but it has the Key, and usually, wherever the Key lands is the option that is most important because it's the Key. So, it depends on what you want and what you're looking for. If you want that back and forth fun, then go with option B.
Yeah we did. He is the more comfortable and safe option. But this other person is new so we are still getting to know each other. Thank you so so much. I actually accordingly.
What is that 37 card?
That’s the spirit card
Well, the Whip and the Mice in the past, in your A line, indicate that the relationship was marked by many arguments and a lot of wear and tear. This can even reveal a somewhat toxic pattern in the relationship you. However, this can change. The Key is there showing that this cycle can be closed off and that a new phase can be opened. If both of you are interested in staying together, you can enter a new phase in which you will be able to work through and resolve these issues related to constant arguments. the new cÃcle relationship tends to be relatively stable, without intense emotions or great adventures.
In Line A, there is also the presence of two black Jacks. This can indicate a youthful impulse—regardless of your actual age—or suggest that when the two of you are together, there is a tendency toward imprudence or risk-taking behaviors. This kind of energy tends to fuel conflict and helps explain the appearance of the Mice and the Whip, as if the relationship were marked by confusion, noise, instability, and an impulsive, youthful drive, independent of age.
Regarding Line B, it indicates the arrival of something that brings luck, a sense of lightness, and the promise of a new relationship. However, there are two cards created by the deck’s author that I do not know how to read properly: the Spirit card and card number 38. Because of that, my interpretation here is more tentative. Still, Line B speaks of something arriving with good fortune and a feeling of ease. With the Spirit card together with the Ring, this could be related to something karmic, a very deep kind of bond.
Overall, the spread does not specifically tell you to stay in relationship A or choose relationship B, but it does give you elements to help you decide. In Line A, you have the possibility of overcoming past difficulties and building a stable relationship in the future, even if it may come with a lack of passion, excitement, or a sense of adventure—possibly leading to a feeling of stagnation. In Line B, there is the promise of a new relationship, perhaps karmic, or a sense of spiritual completeness—but here I am being transparent in saying that this part is more speculative, since I do not fully know how to interpret the extra cards included in the deck.
Thanks a lot. The first card is the incense burner and the second one is the spirit card. It’s from the Rana George deck. I use her meanings mainly and the key card is like the ultimate yes card especially when supported by other positive cards.
It seems to me that you already know the answer to your question, actually. Lol. You’re just looking for the deck to confirm it for you, right? Good luck with that.
Hahaha not really at the time. I was confused because the other option looked good too
I have the feeling that many times I ask the question, but deep down, when I do, I already intuitively know what I should do. I just stay there waiting, and then when the cards respond, they end up confirming what I already knew.
Hahahah you are quite right