Yes posted last year. Going through a hard time and just needed to vent and get feedback. Somehow it just makes me feel better to reread it so I posted it.
So nothing has changed in a year? Sure some people may not know how to do an update but will generally say it’s an update. This reads like it’s a cut and paste repost. Your first line says “recently”, yet it obviously wasn’t why not say a year ago? What’s the hard time you’re going through? What are you doing about your wife’s cheating?
Dude, it's been a year. What is the update? No one can advise you about something from a year ago without knowing what's happened since then. Are you just Karma farming?
Dude. Yes. There are subreddits about this. A lot of them. She cheated, lied and gaslit you about it. She would have continued to do it too. The guy had to
Come to you. I guarantee she would have found someone else to do this with. You need to leave her
The bottom line is... Can you ever really trust her again? I don't think you can man. She even lied to her side piece. She will use people however she wants to get what she wants. But for the sake of argument, what could she do that would help you start to trust her again?
She just doesn’t have the power to leave you so she has resorted to making a good enough reason for you to leave yourself.
Leave and try to make it amicable.
My wife cheated for the final time. Left and everything. I got her back but im not 100% into the relationship with her anymore. It is not fair. So i let her go completely.
She not only cheated, she LIED to your face when you confronted her. She only accepted the truth when you had overwhelming proof of her cheating. Sorry, that's way too much disrespect to come back from.
AND then there is this: "she tried to convince him with additional nudes and videos" After the other guy asked if she was married.
She's for the road man.
Are you sure this is the first time. Might want to DNA test the kids.
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She said it was ok that you worked a lot and all that, but did this because she felt neglected? She said it was ok. She needs to say what she actually thinks instead of what you want to hear.
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You posted this 10 months ago. Something isnt adding up anymore.
This needs to be addressed
Yes posted last year. Going through a hard time and just needed to vent and get feedback. Somehow it just makes me feel better to reread it so I posted it.
So nothing has changed in a year? Sure some people may not know how to do an update but will generally say it’s an update. This reads like it’s a cut and paste repost. Your first line says “recently”, yet it obviously wasn’t why not say a year ago? What’s the hard time you’re going through? What are you doing about your wife’s cheating?
Dude, it's been a year. What is the update? No one can advise you about something from a year ago without knowing what's happened since then. Are you just Karma farming?
Dude. Yes. There are subreddits about this. A lot of them. She cheated, lied and gaslit you about it. She would have continued to do it too. The guy had to Come to you. I guarantee she would have found someone else to do this with. You need to leave her
My bad, didn’t realize you posted the same thing a year ago. You are just a troll. Move on.
I see it in history too
Yep - this is cheating and I find it best to not trust the person since they are distrustful. The "reasons" are weak.
The bottom line is... Can you ever really trust her again? I don't think you can man. She even lied to her side piece. She will use people however she wants to get what she wants. But for the sake of argument, what could she do that would help you start to trust her again?
There is no texting affairs, or emotional affairs, there are only affairs.
Good Luck
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Can u really stay now? I mean really?
She has emotionally left you a long time ago.
She just doesn’t have the power to leave you so she has resorted to making a good enough reason for you to leave yourself.
Leave and try to make it amicable.
My wife cheated for the final time. Left and everything. I got her back but im not 100% into the relationship with her anymore. It is not fair. So i let her go completely.
She not only cheated, she LIED to your face when you confronted her. She only accepted the truth when you had overwhelming proof of her cheating. Sorry, that's way too much disrespect to come back from.
AND then there is this: "she tried to convince him with additional nudes and videos" After the other guy asked if she was married.
She's for the road man.
Are you sure this is the first time. Might want to DNA test the kids.
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Rule 3: No blaming or shaming women or men for men's problems, no sexism against men or women, no manosphere thinking or radical feminist ideologies allowed.
Rule 3: No blaming or shaming women or men for men's problems, no sexism against men or women, no manosphere thinking or radical feminist ideologies allowed.
She said it was ok that you worked a lot and all that, but did this because she felt neglected? She said it was ok. She needs to say what she actually thinks instead of what you want to hear.