The person that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with has broken up with me because I wasn’t “okay” with the way she communicated with her ex husband. I stumbled upon some text messages between her and her ex husband that I would consider emotional cheating. In the recent weeks I noticed her taking her phone everywhere and it started to make sense once I found everything. I confronted her and she reacted in a very hostile way while denying any of the messages. She claims there are no feelings between them but the conversations say otherwise. Me being the “nice” guy I am, I gave her the benefit of the doubt but that same day her ex husband came over while I wasn’t home (Ring camera notification). I drew the line there and told her how I was feeling and called it insecurities. We’ve been together almost three years and this is the first time I’ve experienced this with her.
She had mentioned she wanted space and because I still love her to death, I moved out temporarily from our home. I have no friends and my family lives elsewhere (different state). I’m heart broken and in denial. I don’t know what to do. I know I shouldn’t beg anyone to love me and if she really loved me, she would put in the effort but I’m afraid that’s not happening. I have hope but she has no issues not reaching out nor caring about what has happened. I’m scared it might be over and i don’t know if I’ll get through it.
Just venting since i have no one to vent to. Thank you guys!
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Can you call your family or even possibly visit them (I know they are in a different state but still)? I think you need contact with other people to know that the world doesn't end when the relationship ends. To feel more secure is to widen your social circle😊 You are worth way more than to be constantly vigilant and filled with anxiety. Good luck!
Bro, I have been there and that sucks! So sorry to hear you’re dealing with this bullshit man. I lost my person to cheating and it was incredibly painful. I can offer this for you to consider, my greatest regret, in retrospect, is that I didn’t haul ass the very first time I suspected it was going on. The only thing worse than losing the woman you love is realizing that you hung around for years while she cheated and made fun of you with another guy. Hey man, I don’t know if your girl is cheating, but from what you said, it sounds it. Don’t wait around and be made a fool of for ages like I was. I promise you that you don’t want the experience of initiating sex with your wife to see a bunch of someone elses jizz drain out of her. Horrible right? sickening? disgusting? Ya, that’s the reality of cheating man, it’s sexual violence, it’s violating, dangerous, repulsive, and the true mark of a shit person. Get angry friend, get mean, and get the fuck away from that person.