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The only acceptable men’s stretch marks are the ones you get either from doing anabolic steroids getting too many gains too fast or because you grew to a crazy height too quickly for your skin to keep up. Otherwise, those are girly stretch marks. /s
The amount of people that think stretch marks come exclusively from pregnancy is nuts. I've had a guy get weird on me once thinking I was lying about being pregnant previously for having em
Got em on my tits, hips, thighs and calves from puberty. Never been overweight or particularly muscular
Yeah they’ve all been shocked when I pointed them out because I like running my fingers over stretch marks, men or women partners alike. They all hated becoming aware of it. Like dude… it looks normal and quite good. Get over it.
Okay but as a goth girl I do agree with the idea that a lot of the “step on me, mommy” shit from gen Z guys is legit highly performative—and I think they’re spot on re: it being because it flies under the radar. I don’t think this means we need to Retvrn to Traditional Masculinity or whatever, that’d be totally asinine. But yeah, most dom/mes I know have dealt with pretty blatant sexual harassment that people just kinda let fly because it’s submissive. And if you do bed one of them and try to be dominant like they said they wanted, they freak out about it. It’s very annoying.
Yeah, same. I've been feeling the same way lately, and it's a weird type of harassment where you're supposed to be flattered because it's subversive and so cool.
It's also a huge red flag when someone involves you in their kink like that without consent. I know plenty of people are going to read that and think "You're taking this too seriously", but to be frank, calling a dominant femme person "Mommy" is kink-speak. Using kink-speak with someone you don't know well &/ don't have a dynamic with can come across as intrusively sexualizing which is the wrong kind of non-con.
Personally speaking, being called "Mommy" by anyone other than my child (or at least, an actual child) turns me into the Mojave. Just don't.
rspod is essentially r/FragileFemaleRedditor and I say that as a feminist. They find feminism cringe because they’re ‘post-woke’ and too intelligent to be Republicans or Conservatives with a capital C but also so obsessed with being cool that they’ve adopted various phobias in response to the ‘cringe’ inclusivity of mainstream college-educated millennials. It’s like their 35-year-old cousins are all about criticising and moving past gender essentialism/traditional gender roles and 35-year-olds aren’t cool, or not as cool as 25-year-olds, so they need another ideology, which is easy: always just pick the opposite.
Except many of them are 35 and both consorting and competing, for reasons I can’t quite explain, with self-proclaimed 19-year-old ‘art hoes’.
Not telling you anything you don't already know, but allow me to scream into the void for a moment.
Reposts used to be forbidden on reddit. Then they were allowed after a few years. Now bot handlers just create new subs to astroturf old content over and over with other bots commenting. I left subs after being in them since they were created. I noticed the mods were allowing the same reposts every few days. Days then became hours.
Reddit's decision to allow people to hide their comments and posts was a middle finger to everyone who thought they were trying to handle some of the bots. We've known they were behind many of the bot accounts for engagement, (rage baiting or otherwise.) But Reddit allowing histories to be hidden was still a gut punch because they chose them. Not us humans. Reddit was so different in 2012. I don't know when I'll finally decide to leave for good. But utterly disappointed in what it's become. Sorry for the wall of text.
Why is he mad that there are people who like features that have been seen as unattractive? Is he mad that people can have other tastes? And since he said “traditionally” does he think people should follow a tradition over which traits are attractive? Or even not caring about traits at all and focus on the person?
This isn't new. I was goth in high school a couple decades ago (now I'm lazy mom goth, lol), and my husband and I are high school sweethearts. The myths of the big titty goth gf are real, and speaking from experience, plenty of boys (when I was a girl) were into it, and plenty of men my age and older still are. Bonus points because I grew up on a small farm and my mom boarded, bred, and trained horses professionally, and you best believe I grew up bucking hay, raising farm buildings (shop, barn, hot walker, mud room, wood shed, and permanent covered parking for the trailer), so even though I wasn't super muscular, I was freakishly strong, and yeah, dudes were into that, too. Also, stretch marks are so, so normal. I'm actually really in love with mine. I earned them. I ate amazing food, birthed two babies (now teens), and have grown and changed over time. I love seeing the changes to my face and body. It's like, proof that I've lived, ya know?
It's so funny to me that some people cannot conceptualize that anyone would be into things they personally aren't into. Like, this dude isn't attracted to goth women, stretch marks, muscles, whatever, so he literally cannot fathom that anyone else is attracted to those things.
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Men get stretch marks too ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Nuh uh, real men have "chiseled features" like RFK Jr.
The only acceptable men’s stretch marks are the ones you get either from doing anabolic steroids getting too many gains too fast or because you grew to a crazy height too quickly for your skin to keep up. Otherwise, those are girly stretch marks. /s
Lol, yeah, I ...uh..probably did that first thing with the beefcake. I bet that's how I got 'em.
BEEEF CAAAAKE
The amount of people that think stretch marks come exclusively from pregnancy is nuts. I've had a guy get weird on me once thinking I was lying about being pregnant previously for having em
Got em on my tits, hips, thighs and calves from puberty. Never been overweight or particularly muscular
Don't think it's possible to go though puberty without getting some. But yea every guy I've been with has them. It's fine.
Yeah they’ve all been shocked when I pointed them out because I like running my fingers over stretch marks, men or women partners alike. They all hated becoming aware of it. Like dude… it looks normal and quite good. Get over it.
I actually have less stretch marks from pregnancy than I do from puberty.
Puberty definitely causes them in both genders!
Can confirm.
Wtf is “traditional male horniness” lol.
Andrew Taint stuff. Lambos and Bitches.
I think it’s like when a dog starts humping a cushion whilst barking angrily or something?
Real alphas conform to preset standards down to the letter instead of being individuals, everyone knows that.
Okay but as a goth girl I do agree with the idea that a lot of the “step on me, mommy” shit from gen Z guys is legit highly performative—and I think they’re spot on re: it being because it flies under the radar. I don’t think this means we need to Retvrn to Traditional Masculinity or whatever, that’d be totally asinine. But yeah, most dom/mes I know have dealt with pretty blatant sexual harassment that people just kinda let fly because it’s submissive. And if you do bed one of them and try to be dominant like they said they wanted, they freak out about it. It’s very annoying.
Yeah, same. I've been feeling the same way lately, and it's a weird type of harassment where you're supposed to be flattered because it's subversive and so cool.
Yeah the "mommy" thing still sexualizes women, even when they are put "in control". They aren't in control. They're sexualized without their consent.
It's also a huge red flag when someone involves you in their kink like that without consent. I know plenty of people are going to read that and think "You're taking this too seriously", but to be frank, calling a dominant femme person "Mommy" is kink-speak. Using kink-speak with someone you don't know well &/ don't have a dynamic with can come across as intrusively sexualizing which is the wrong kind of non-con.
Personally speaking, being called "Mommy" by anyone other than my child (or at least, an actual child) turns me into the Mojave. Just don't.
Show me somethin' natural like ass with some stretch marks
rspod is essentially r/FragileFemaleRedditor and I say that as a feminist. They find feminism cringe because they’re ‘post-woke’ and too intelligent to be Republicans or Conservatives with a capital C but also so obsessed with being cool that they’ve adopted various phobias in response to the ‘cringe’ inclusivity of mainstream college-educated millennials. It’s like their 35-year-old cousins are all about criticising and moving past gender essentialism/traditional gender roles and 35-year-olds aren’t cool, or not as cool as 25-year-olds, so they need another ideology, which is easy: always just pick the opposite.
Except many of them are 35 and both consorting and competing, for reasons I can’t quite explain, with self-proclaimed 19-year-old ‘art hoes’.
This was also posted word for word in r/twoxchromosomes. Take that for what you will, regarding bot farms/astroturfing.
Not telling you anything you don't already know, but allow me to scream into the void for a moment.
Reposts used to be forbidden on reddit. Then they were allowed after a few years. Now bot handlers just create new subs to astroturf old content over and over with other bots commenting. I left subs after being in them since they were created. I noticed the mods were allowing the same reposts every few days. Days then became hours.
Reddit's decision to allow people to hide their comments and posts was a middle finger to everyone who thought they were trying to handle some of the bots. We've known they were behind many of the bot accounts for engagement, (rage baiting or otherwise.) But Reddit allowing histories to be hidden was still a gut punch because they chose them. Not us humans. Reddit was so different in 2012. I don't know when I'll finally decide to leave for good. But utterly disappointed in what it's become. Sorry for the wall of text.
I hear you.
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I have no idea, I read it a couple days ago.
Why is he mad that there are people who like features that have been seen as unattractive? Is he mad that people can have other tastes? And since he said “traditionally” does he think people should follow a tradition over which traits are attractive? Or even not caring about traits at all and focus on the person?
It's a copypasta lol
I would not be surprised if it originated on rspod because people there are replying unironically and agreeing lol
rofl
This isn't new. I was goth in high school a couple decades ago (now I'm lazy mom goth, lol), and my husband and I are high school sweethearts. The myths of the big titty goth gf are real, and speaking from experience, plenty of boys (when I was a girl) were into it, and plenty of men my age and older still are. Bonus points because I grew up on a small farm and my mom boarded, bred, and trained horses professionally, and you best believe I grew up bucking hay, raising farm buildings (shop, barn, hot walker, mud room, wood shed, and permanent covered parking for the trailer), so even though I wasn't super muscular, I was freakishly strong, and yeah, dudes were into that, too. Also, stretch marks are so, so normal. I'm actually really in love with mine. I earned them. I ate amazing food, birthed two babies (now teens), and have grown and changed over time. I love seeing the changes to my face and body. It's like, proof that I've lived, ya know?
It's so funny to me that some people cannot conceptualize that anyone would be into things they personally aren't into. Like, this dude isn't attracted to goth women, stretch marks, muscles, whatever, so he literally cannot fathom that anyone else is attracted to those things.
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