Hi!

Im 24(F) only child. I am close to both my parents my mama and papa (married for 25 years). Just recently I discovered that my papa is chatting with our kapitbahay. It seems na he does it every time my mama is on a night shift (she is a nurse btw).

I always check my parents account dahil na scam na sila once and I always do monitor their accounts din to prevent it from happening again. I have access to both my parents account (please don’t bash me since ako naman gumawa ng fb nila and they never changed their passwords). So eto na nga, just tonight when my mama is working on a night shift and I just discovered my papa sending messages to that girl like “pwede ba” “open mo yung kusina” and he unsent it right away pero I knew na he unsent kase nakita ko pa yung message before nawala.

But I haven’t yet gathered evidence of them exchanging messages since the girl seems not replying to him kase he’s messaging two accounts with the same name.

What should I do ba? I am in absolute utter shock because he is not the dad that I knew. He is a good provider, a church leader, and a sweet husband to my mother. He give literally everything to us.

Should I confront him? Gather evidence muna? Should I tell my mom? Idk what to do really…