I'm chronically ill so is my doggo. He is my entire memtal health. I have to start studying again next mornth and I struggled so much this year, gave up because nothing could stick in my head. I don't know how I'm going to study while dealing with the loss of my baby, loss of work and going back to eating once a day. I feel like I've failed him because I can't afford his meds anymore...

  • Grieving an animal is very difficult. I’m so sorry. Please check out Jackie Pajan’s TikTok page.

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  • are you putting him down because you can’t afford his meds anymore or has he declined and quality of life isn’t fair anymore? If it’s because of the money I would reach out to rescues to see if they can help! Or start a go fund me. I’d donate in a heart beat!

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    I can't afford his meds.

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    And what does he have? I want to help you figure this out so that you don’t have to put him down

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    Where are you located

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  • I feel bad for you. I’ve been through this a few times and it’s never easy. Be strong and do what needs to be done . Time will heal your pain

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    It's horrible.

    My golden retriever was there for me when I first got crps ( 8 years ago) and now he turns 11 next year. He has tops maybe 2 years left of his life. I can't even think about it without getting upset.

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    I’ve been through this hell. These aren’t pets they’re like kids or family. Not much I could tell you to make you feel better. This is a process that you just need to ride out. We take these loving creatures into our lives knowing just how short theirs are. When my babies go I take comfort in knowing I gave them maximum love . You should find comfort in this as well

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  • Is there anything anyone can do to help you with this transition? I know where you are and what you are going through, because I went through the same thing in 2016. If you want to know my experiences, what I learned, and how best to help, please send me a message. My pets are my life, and having to say goodbye is overwhelming. You need tools right now to manage your coming loss. I have tools to give.

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  • I would definitely have someone with you if you put your dog down. It helps to have someone there to support you. Sorry you are having to make that decision.

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