I'm 11 weeks and bleeding. I had a normal ultrasound last week. I called my OB and they cant fit me in. So I'm stuck in the ER. I called multiple urgent cares and none have an ultrasound machine. Planned parenthood is booked. I just want to know if there is still a heartbeat. I passed a clot this morning. I have no cramps or pain but I'm scared none the less. I had a miscarriage 18 months ago. This sucks.

32 points ConsequenceThat7421

They confirmed no heartbeat

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22 points EpicangeI

The worst words to hear, I’m so sorry. No words can express what it feels like to have multiple losses. Please be gentle on yourself and take this time to grieve.

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6 points chicigrl

I’m so sorry! 😞

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5 points paddlingswan

I’m so sorry to hear this. Hugs and healing to you and your partner.

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3 points NatureNerd11

I’m so sorry 💔🫂

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3 points SgtMajor-Issues

I’m so sorry 🫂🫂🫂🫂

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3 points new_phone_who_dis7

Hugs

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2 points PuzzledRaccoon7513

🫂

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2 points Puzzleheaded_Fox8097

There are no words. I'm so very sorry OP 🫂

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1 points cady-anne

I’m so so sorry. I hope your D&C goes smoothly tomorrow.

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5 points Fin_Elln

Oh dear. Good luck. May everything be ok!!!! 🫂

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4 points EpicangeI

I’m so sorry, I know how you feel. It could possibly be a SCH which can be common. Hopefully the ER doesn’t take too long. I wish you the best and hope everything turns out okay

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12 points ConsequenceThat7421

Ultrasound done. Screen was turned and she was silent. I know they can't say anything. So now I'm just in limbo waiting for an answer.

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6 points barthrowaway1985

And they're even more tight-lipped at the ER for ultrasounds, it's a whole thing. I'm so sorry you're in limbo, sending hugs and good vibes.

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5 points chicigrl

Sending you positive vibes. Hopefully the bleeding is caused by an SCH.

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3 points Beautiful_Donut_286

How long before you know more?

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5 points ConsequenceThat7421

I'm in a waiting area for results. I'm hoping soon. Been in the results area for 30 min.

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5 points Beautiful_Donut_286

So frustrating that they can't tell you straight away 😖 here the ultrasounds at the ER are done by an OB, so while the wait until the ultrasound may be a bit longer if it's busy, at least the result is instant. The additional waiting time must be excruciating

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6 points ConsequenceThat7421

Yea I'm numb at this point. Just tell me heartbeat or no. This is why I wanted to see my OB but no availability. Ugh I'm so frustrated.

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3 points Beautiful_Donut_286

This time of year is horrible to have possible complications 😖 So many doctors and nurses are out for the holidays or sick

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2 points nineninetynice

I am so sorry that you are going through this, waiting is makes it more difficult while you are in limbo.

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2 points katesbait

I hope you are ok. Thinking of you.

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2 points pisforpnut

I am so sorry - I went through this a few months ago. I know the pain too well and I’m just deeply sorry. 💔

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1 points cup_1337

I’m so sorry OP. Was this a natural pregnancy or IVF? 11 weeks seems so far along. My absolute condolences.

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3 points ConsequenceThat7421

It was a natural pregnancy. Just got normal nipt results back and had a normal ultrasound last week. I have no answers. I'm having a D and C tomorrow.

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9 points cup_1337

Ask if the tissue can be biopsied to determine a cause. It’s possible to do.

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3 points Curious_Grade451

I am so so sorry. One of my MMC was 13/14 weeks and we got great nipt results and sex of baby the morning of our ultrasound. We were so excited. I hope the D and C goes okay for you, it’s all so traumatic. Sending hugs ♥️

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1 points mantalight

I’m so sorry. I know how blindsiding this can be, especially after great ultrasounds and results. At my 3 month US baby was beautiful and measuring perfect, and at 18 weeks she was gone. No why, no explanation. The D&E was surprisingly the easiest part of the whole thing though, and I’ve heard that from others as well so I hope that’s your experience too. Big hugs 🫂

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0 points SgtMajor-Issues

I’m so sorry, i can imagine the anxiety is excruciating. Let us know what happens please!

Just FYI, bleeding- even passing clots- is not a definitive sign of anything being wrong. You could very well have a hematoma that is working its way out. I had a big bleed at ~6 weeks, but all was normal at my ultrasound a week later. I hope that is the case for you as well

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