crowded streets, busy cafes, people everywhere and yet it’s possible to feel deeply alone in the middle of it all. i’m a 37-year-old man living here, i’ve been through a long, difficult personal phase that took more out of me than I realised at the time.
i kept functioning, kept showing up, kept doing what was needed but somewhere along the way, i lost touch with simple, genuine human connection.
right now, I’m looking for one real conversation. nothing heavy or dramatic, just shared presence, small moments that remind you that you’re still here, still human.
looking to meet a woman because it’s something I’ve been missing in a very basic, human sense.
sometimes in a city full of people all you’re really looking for is one moment of genuine connection.
Living in a crowded city can still feel isolating especially after carrying a lot on your own for a long time. Wanting simple, real connection is very human. Hope you find a conversation that feels easy and grounding even one small moment can make a difference.
ngl, Totally agree! Sometimes just sharing a smile or a chat can really lift the weight. Hope you connect soon…
hope you find that conversation. cities can feel lonely sometimes.
Hoping this could be one ?
It's like you're surrounded by people but at the same time none that you can connect with right?
Being traumatized by them perhaps.
This kinda broke my heart but I felt it deeply as well. Feeling lonely even in a room full of people or with a loved one next to you, really sucks!
I've always longed for meeting that 1 special someone to be able to just have long convos with. One day, hopefully... one day.
Keep your head up! Things will get better.
I think cities can be difficult sometimes, so many people but it can feel like they are just all flowing past you going about their day. I’ve sat in a coffee shop in a busy Cardiff and just watched everyone coming and going without interacting. I try to make a point of saying hi to people, if it feels appropriate and they aren’t busy or rushing. Surprisingly often they’ll stop and talk for a few minutes. It’s nice.
Happy to chat :) although not wanting to date/hookup. But I understand how isolating it can feel.
Are you from Bangalore?
Nope! Didn’t actually realise that you were from Bangalore lol
Where are ya from
New Zealand!
I heard it gets pretty lonely there as well.
Honestly, the sense of community here is great. But, it’s an Individual experience
You've seen other parts of the world ?
Join a club in some hobby that interests you. Do you like chess? That game often leads to great connections and banter. How about sports? Pickleball? Cricket? You'll get to know folks fast this way.
Where are you from originally?
I'm from delhi originally, moved here 3 years back
Oh yeah.... Anyone you can phone back in Dehli?