People deserve to know Amber was once a beautiful person. She lived a hard terrible life and her whole family passed away that she was very close to this past couple of years. I'm praying for a miracle that she gets the help she needs and to get away from this weirdo.💔😞(yes I know her, I’ve known her since middle school) and stumbled across this Bob dudes Facebook today. I’m traumatized.
oh my goodness... I'm so sorry, I had seen people post a couple old photos of her but this is really beyond sad. I hope she finds and accepts help. ❤️
I usually see these played the other way around with an uplifting end.
yeah, oof
This is gutting. Like, logically I knew she couldn’t have always been like this, but seeing it really laid out is heartbreaking
Nah she was pretty much always like this. You cant just go on hardcore coke binges for decades and nothing happens. I worked with her when these photos were taken which is also crazy, she was about 26-27 at the time. She went to my cousins highschool then I worked with her about 8 years later. In a way shes seems better now, at least dropped the coke. Mainly just drinking now. But running into her on a dollar drink industry night was a crazy experience.
People like to blame Bob but ultimately shes been on this path since she was a teenager.
THANK YOU. A lot of the pictures that strangers like to share of her acting like they're "happier times" are just a few days before arrests. The mugshots also show a very quick decline before she even met Bob. Most of the people making this content and sharing it around are monetized in some way, and keep making up crazier and crazier stories to keep people's attention.
Thank you for sharing. I hope whatever family she has left is there for her.
I’ve been following Bob for years and he has brought me a lot of joy but I know I and many others have been uncomfortable ever since Amber was dragged into this.
Bob? Brings you joy???
Same size
Not trying to be facetious, legit question, how does bob bring you joy? It kinda bums me out. I guess i could see how sometimes he’s funny with all his gifs and his farting fascination.
Joy? Everything about his life is an absolute horror movie his reality is no joy, it’s terrifying this is what kids have nightmares about.
Why is he always running in place?
He's such a lovable little rascal, though!
No.
Bob's T-shirt with no panties on low-key snuff films bring you joy? Is Bob entering your body same size? 🤔
Good for you. It's not all drugs. I've been following bob for years. She has a tbi as well that's how they met. Her relative said it was from a car accident years ago in a comment thread. She still has a couple family members left who said they would help her but she is refusing help currently. Some people called for wellness checks on her at bobs and she was very mad. If you want to help some people send clothes and food to bobs address. I dont know what it is offhand but he's posted it before .
She may use drugs and alcohol to self medicate but this is not all drugs.
I read where someone reported that dump of a home they live in and the home inspector wanted to condemn it. bet you it was one of them wellfair checks on Amber
I don’t doubt it! It’s actually bobs mom’s house.
Wdym “years ago” he only picked her up like a year ago.
They’re saying the car accident was years ago, I’m pretty sure.
I see, mb
I get where you’re coming from, without punctuation it does kinda look like they said “years ago in a comment thread” rather than “years ago, in a comment thread” lol
Wait, how did they meet because she has a TBI? Im new here lol
Probably at a dr office or medical.center. he's very chatty.
Surprisingly friendly just weird as hell
I have a TBI too, should I be worried?! 😟
Bob's waiting for ya, watch out.
Yes
I’m really sorry. I think a lot of us feel defensive of Amber. She’s clearly not at her best or healthiest and it seems really exploitative of Bob to film her the way he does. I understand completely what it’s like to have a loved one who used to be bright and healthy and happy and see them wither and dull with drug use and chronic health issues. The two, sadly, often go hand in hand. I hope Amber gets the help she needs.
I don’t personally know Amber, but from what I’ve seen, she’s had a long history of addiction and crimes that began well before she met Bob. Even some of her family members have criminal records like her father and sister. That being said, it truly breaks my heart to see what she’s going through. It’s clear that she needs urgent help. She may not want it, but she certainly needs it.
It would be very very hard to find a rehab place that would take her. Her mental state is waay too unstable and they would refuse her. Rehab anyways is not the magical cure like people think. It would be also hard to get the psychiatric help needs. If she was committed, they wouldn't do anything to her but get her medication and it would be up to her to take them and get them refilled afterwards. Some people are unfortunately too far gone for there to be mental health care willing and able to help them . Mental health care in the USA is a fucking joke to be honest. At least Bob gives her shelter, clothing and food.
Yeah I don't think there is any way she could possibly be a "normal" person again. Even with intensive rehab and institutionalization in a place that actually puts effort into that stuff. If Amber goes to a mental hospital, she'll be in there for life.
She is definitely functioning at diminished capacity.
I keep saying that she’s gonna drop an ATM on his head any day now.
I ain't no skank!
😂🤣
Oh my god…
Heartbreaking 💔
Unpopular opinion but Bob is also very unwell. I do not think his intent is malicious or that he has and ulterior motive. He is just as gone as her, maybe worse with his "god in my body, like a body my same size." Or whatever. He literally thinks he and amber are the hosts of an apocalyptic podcast. Amber is going to do what she does with it without Bob. I find comfort in the fact that they at least have each other in their current state of mind. He makes sure she eats and has baths at least. I think it's a miracle they get through everyday. I'm sorry about your friend but try to see bob is also unwell. Not a villain.
I dont think that is an unpopular opinion at all. Plenty think/know hes unwell.
Meth... is a helluva drug...
This is absolutely heart breaking to see. I hope she turns things around.
That is just heartbreaking.
Yeah, I looked into her a few months back, I did not know about her losing her family, but my heart completely shattered when I saw what she once was. I can’t imagine the pain she is feeling. I know addiction first hand and know what it’s like to love an addict, both are their own personal hell. Idk if she has or had close friends since she has no family left, but I hope someone is able to reach out to her and get her out of this situation and get her to help. Even if she doesn’t want it initially, once she sobers up she may see the damage the drugs have done and are doing and be willing to fight for herself. I’m so sorry to those that love her, to her especially, trauma fucking sucks.
:(
Did you make this video?
So sad. 😔
Wow, this is really f’ing sad
and she's not even that old. no hope with dope
Breaks my heart
I could save her
She's a violent ghetto hoodrat
My heart bro 💔 I wanna give her a hug, but I dont wanna touch her at alllll at the same time
Who is this