This question came from the a trend where like people used to be either feminine/ tomboy then is now the exact opposite (so like if you're used to be a tomboy, you're now being feminine). Because I really like being a tomboy sometimes but still maintaining femininity. For context, im a girl btw. l am kind of worried because my fashion taste may attach a label to my sexuality (like being pure masc or pure femme) and while also because I am not so sure if I am 'bi' enough. TIA for your answers!
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Well, I still pull both and that's absolutely fine, the only problem is if you're not feeling okay with it. People will judge you either if you're girly girl or tomboy.
Im really cool with it, its just that im concerned with labels. I plan to buy clothes from men section since they hide my belly the best (and I literally have so much girly stuff)
Oh girl, I'm a fatty lady, I got you so well. But truly, labels will come anyway from anywhere. If you're too girly, too boyish or too mild it's gonna hit you. The main rule to life is "if it's not hurting me, anyone or anything, it's fine." And move on. I realized it was not my problem when I became what they called "too feminine", and I have always been you know. I ALWAYS HAD BELLY, ever since childhood, and I'm so cool with it. Because the problem is not you, it's the stores that try to fit us on some average sizes that are absolutely unrealistic.
Indeed!!
That’s called “ androgynous”
Yes, im kind of exploring but im not certain im gonna fit into that label
Sorry for putting air quotes on the word tomboy because I might have used the wrong term. Feel free to correct me if I said something wrong or offensive.
It's okay, I feel like the way we dress should not define who we are. It's okay that some people do it to follow and set a label on themselves like "a proper style"