i wanna add that I feel turned on my women and can have sexual fantasies, but loving them the same way I love guys does not happen really often. And I feel bad bcus i feel like I'm objectifying them. I like the fantasy of having a wife and kids but the love just isn't there most of the time. With men on the other hand, the love is always there but creating a family ? hell nah. It might be deeper than just internalized homophobia. anyways I hope me and other people can get answers 🙏🏻 the guys acc is 70degrees on tiktok

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31 points Dyl777777

I feel like I swap between feeling this way about the opposite gender one day and the same gender the other, it’s mad frustrating and emotionally turmoiling (not to mention my dad who has desired to convince me to not like the same gender.)

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8 points MrMikeer

yea there's always this pressure that comes from parents and family. why does our love bother them so much

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19 points Mon_1357

biromantic homo-leaning, homosexual (if you're a girl replace homo with hetero)

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3 points MrMikeer

I'll look it up, thanks 🙏🏻

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22 points Gr00vyandneverGlooby

That's me lol

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9 points MrMikeer

glad to know i ain't alone

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-32 points Gr00vyandneverGlooby

Honestly just call yourself whatever you want it's not about what it is,it is about what you want or just ask Gemini lol Idk I would be learn it as well

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11 points toastybreadmane

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8 points 6060Burst

You DARE mention one of those tin-skin, bucket of bolts, wires for brains, oil-slick, metal-crunching CLANKERS!? ON MY BISEXUAL SUBREDDIT!? DIE!

https://preview.redd.it/zwcm18qtgacg1.jpeg?width=240&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=41cd47edb56aa3af96b7690e24758948c7c5e1b8

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1 points 6060Burst

Divine Intervention intensifies

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9 points AwesomeCaden73

This is basically how I feel lmao. I find myself avoiding thinking about woman sexually, though, to the extent that I rarely watch porn involving women. If it's all guys, don't care. But when there's a woman... yeah, hot, but I feel so uncomfortable seeing them in a comprising situation. I want them to better than us guys.

I know that's weird, but it's always veen strong enough to push me away from straight porn.

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2 points MrMikeer

ohhh I be like dis for real !!

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9 points -Ilovepokemon-

im in this image and dont like it

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3 points SimsDaGoat1

Holy fuck yes

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5 points oinkthepig14

this but swap guys for girls highkey

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3 points Forsaken_Orchid_6014

yeah i’ve struggled with that too

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2 points MrMikeer

how did u deal with it ?

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2 points Forsaken_Orchid_6014

truthfully? i haven’t really yet. i’ve been focusing on school lately. but i just know that i am who i am, and that this is a spectrum, and it isn’t always going to fit like a piece in a puzzle. i hope things get better for you friend :)

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2 points MrMikeer

I've heard that not trying to fit a label makes things easier. I'ma do the same, focus on other things, and I'ma just love what I love without worrying too much abt it. thanks mate

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1 points Forsaken_Orchid_6014

anytime friend 🩷

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3 points bisexual_socialist

Lowkey yeah almost exactly 😭

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3 points Ewankenobi25

biromantic, heterosexual.

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3 points CentiGuy

Wait this is me!!

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3 points just_an_updog

Omg me but vice versa frfr

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3 points Deep_Promotion8866

Holy fuck that image explains my orientation 100%

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2 points mikelmariachi

imma be fr but I feel like with guys I can feel sexual attraction for like every slightly masculine guy but romantically it would be harder, possible, but harder. and with girls I feel attracted to almost all femenine girls but not to the degree that I do with guys (except for some specific cases). then romantically I'm currently yearning a relationship that never happened, so yeah. It's like a process of not wanting to be gay because I deeply feel like that but then I prove it isn't that way and I feel a relief that only lasts like 3 days and then everything repeats. fuck

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1 points MrMikeer

ugh that's so upsetting. understanding ourselves is a daily task, a hard one indeed. I hope we find a way out of this situation and discover more about ourselves 🤍

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2 points polarised_entropy

bisexual heteroromantic and vice versa

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2 points Entire-Many3959

Omnisexual

It’s bi but you have a preference

Also I’m in this image and I don’t like it

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1 points Impressive-Wave5786

I could have sworn Omnisexual was pan with a preference? correct me if im wrong tho

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1 points Entire-Many3959

Yeah, but (at least to my knowledge) bi and pan can be interchangeable and I say bi more often

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2 points alx_swae

Somewhat. But i dont want a wife

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1 points MrMikeer

yeah me neither it's just beautiful in my imagination but I feel like I don't like women enough to this extent. I do love guys sm but living together/marrying ? nah

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1 points alx_swae

For me, i have enough attraction to men to live together/marry one. Id date a woman, but i dont think i want to marry one, especially a straight woman. Id rather be with someone whos also queer, regardless of gender. But i also cant predict the future.

Id just rather be married to a man. To marry a woman, have bio kids, and have a straight relationship/lifestyle is conformity to me. I have no interest in that lifestyle.

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2 points Direct_Error1630

Yes I feel this way exactly though for women I only find them physically/ sexually attractive.

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1 points Impressive-Wave5786

Basically me but swapped, im into girls fully and men only sexually. You're not alone

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