R/roughsex and other subs are mostly only for men and include several stuff about using women and violating them. It's not even rough sex it's just them being violated or used, the comments are also so fucking terrible

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  • Out of curiosity, do you see any issue with two consenting adults engaging in rough sex? Or is it just how the porn industry portrays and engages with rough sex?

  • I agree some of the posts border on female hate but all videos posted are pretty clearly consensual

    "Consensual" notification of sexualized abuse is not something that anyone conscientious would be condoning anyway. The vast majority (over 90%) of mainstream porn inclusive violence against women.

    This sub is for female hate/abuse, this is not the correct place for this post, I agree it's extreme but if you truly believe over 90% of porn is abuse towards women then you are just looking for a problem

    What is actual data pointing to how the vast majority of porn scenes include violence towards women and I'm sure anyone consuming porn would notice. Pretty hard to miss (The speech to text thing consistently mangles my words so)

    You are talking about a study that looked at dvds, it included spanking as a form of violence as well as verbal things like dirty talk and that was what the majority of the "violence" was, if you look at any study done after 2010 the number ranges between 35-45% these studies also included things like spanking and consensual acts like bdsm

  • Absolutely. I (a mid 40s cis woman) went down the rabbit hole on this. I initially thought "oooo, just a harmless little rough sex fantasy" but the algorithm fed me more and more and it all got worse and worse. Thankfully, I had a bit of a "woahhhhhhh, this isn't right" moment where I realised that yeah, women may have these thoughts of things being done to them, but what does it say about the men that want to inflict these things on them??? That flip of a mindset, the reframing I guess, completely changed it all for me. I now stay well clear of rough sex porn - it is absolutely not healthy

    Because they were asked for it? But I agree it's not healthy especially if done on regular basis.