For the first time in years, my sister with BPD and I were both in the same room at Thanksgiving. My entire extended family has recognized that she abuses me and made a coordinated effort to keep her away from me. I got to see all my relatives without having to compete for their attention and just enjoyed time with them.

Apparently there were a couple times where she managed to come near me and looked like she was about to say something, but then decided against it and walked away. I didn't even notice.