This car has been so devisive and honestly, I don’t get the hate it gets. Sure, looks are subjective but I like it. I feel like a lot of people who talk trash about it, haven’t even driven it. It’s truly impressive. Coming from an i5 m60, I can’t wait to enjoy that V8.

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Heeheehee!!! I don’t know how people always have the perfect reaction gif/jpg’s but that’s hilarious.
Its gold 🤣🤣🤣. Jokes aside congrats to OP
Hope you got 40k off MSRP.
First thing that came to mind
I hope they got 40% off, but it will still be too much.
People def need that 40-50k off to drive this thing around. Else it just be sitting on the lots rotting lmao.
You can get one of these used a couple years old for about 50% off MSRP.
I’ve gotten a fantastic deal on it
sure buddy :)
Big depreciation after 1 year😂
No group of people hate BMWs more than /r/bmw.
I wouldn’t sweat it. Most on here have never even owned a BMW plus I’m sure you got a hell of a deal on one.
I’ve driven one. The interior is a nice place to be in and it’s a solid drive.
Looks for me aren’t great but to each their own.
I just don’t get how they can call it their flagship M car, have it be 50k more expensive than an X5M but end up being slower. Not even mentioning the horrible looks, BMW fans hate irrationality a lot of the time, but this car really deserves all the hate it can get.
Yeah the pricing was stupid but you can buy or lease one now for much cheaper than an X5M. BMW tried to market this has a G-Wagon/Urus alternative but it didn’t resonate with buyers.
The car never made much sense to me honestly but I’m not going to insult someone else for buying one.
People get so worked up over shit that has zero impact on their lives.
Bro you don’t want to turn into r/Audi. They love every garbage Audi model. It’s nauseating.
You must not visit that sub very often because the tides have changed. Even the Audi subreddit can’t deny how shit the new Audi’s are. The new bimmers def have some issues with them but they aren’t even close to as bad as the newest Audi’s. I say this as an BMW and Audi owner (although BMW will always be my #1).
I love angry birds too
Hey that game was fun 10y ago
Yeah, no
Not jealous
Show it from the back if you love it so much
Hehe the back really is the most hated part isn’t it? What’s not to like? :)
I just read a story 40 seconds ago about how someone bought one and it spent 4 months of the next year in the garage, and currently waiting 7+ weeks for a brake line to be delivered from Germany.
Awful decision
Everybody can get unlucky I guess. Same to be said about literally all car brands..
Shows the absolute incompetency of bmw North America when they could have pulled one off an unsold car. When something minor comes along to ruin your day it may instead ruin your next couple of months!
I think for this car specifically the issue might be related to it being build by the M company completely, not BMW. Could have an influence on spare part availability outside of Europe.
I don’t think so. We had an X7 that spent months in the shop for different issues and 7/8ths of that time was awaiting parts from Germany.
Invoked the Lemon Law as soon as we were legally able to because we never knew when the next issue was going to come up.
On the bright side the car being in the garage means less time for you having to look at it.
Not an upside for me personally ;)
Too bad it is ugly
Im gonna pick one up for 25k in 2 yrs
I think it’s magnificent
Magnificently Ugly.
Hehe each to their own friend.
I like it.
Different strokes for different folks. You know even Nickelback had fans.
Here piggy piggy
Compared to older designs, most of the new ones look like shit. Sharp, rough lines, small headlights, grills get bigger and bigger (for no reason). I look at this car and I see a person who is squinting with really large nostrils. Nothing attractive about it, from my pov.
Don’t get me started on the interior, everything is digitized and completely detached from the driver (completely opposite from previous generations). However it’s not just bmw things, most car manufacturers are going in that direction.
As you said, looks are subjective, but I have no doubt the engine will deliver and then some.
The reason is Chinese buyers. But yes.
BMW sold more XM’s in the US than in China.
As impossible as it seems, even the Chinese aren’t buying this, not even with discounts equivalent to $125k USD. This is how bad BMW fucked up… And they still made the man responsible for this mongrel the head of M division.
They missed the mark on this one. Interesting idea but not the best execution.
No car is perfect (except for the g80 m3 or GT3RS imo) but I still think it’s an amazing car
For what this is, X5M would be a better choice.
Except that the X5M is a tax nightmare in Belgium. Just being on the road with that car will set you back 15k/year
Modern cars are TOO FUCKING BIG
There is something to be said about this but overtime I really came to appreciate spacious interiors. I know I will be struggling in tight parking spaces but it is what it is.
Congrats man
Thank you!!
Waste
The look uglier every iteration
I kinda agree but not this one
The design off this grew on me massively when I started seeing more of them on the road
It was actually the opposite for me. I recently saw a white one for the first time and was genuinely disgusted how this thing could be even uglier than I thought
Yip. Saw a bright green one only last week, and couldn’t get over how atrocious it looks. Just a failure of design on every conceivable level. Staggeringly awful.
Oh god that sounds awful already
I mean I own an X4m so I like things weirdly proportioned 😂
Nice @OP. Who cares what these chooms think. I think it looks pretty good honestly.
Thank you sir!
Ah I see, it’s the far worse X5/X7
Is it?
Yes 10000% worse than the X5/X7
But is it though?
Love this truck!
🐽
These are fire , the only thing they kinda messed up on where the stock wheels . Should’ve been more aggressive but I think these are super cool
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Catch that gold glint only on direct light
Very nice, congrats!
My friend has one in full black (best combo imo), sure some people don’t like the design but once you experience the speed you can’t stop smiling, that thing’s fast AF
People are so nasty and all I see is criticism. However, I was recently with my wife at the bmw welt in Munich. The only car she turned her head for other then the RR was XM. I wish I could be at the stage of life to afford such a car. Cheers to you.
My girlfriend doesn’t really care too much about cars but whenever she sees an XM or a new 7-series, she takes a photo of it just to send it to me and laugh about how someone would buy such an abomination, it’s pretty funny if you ask me
Only two things really turn heads:
Extraordinarily pretty things.
Extraordinarily ugly things.
The XM is definitely not that first one.
Your opinion. I’m with the first group.
You're free to die on that hill with the 3 other people who like this car
Thank you!!
>nasty
voicing your opinion is not nasty and you should think really hard about it.
if op likes the car (which he appears to do), cool to be him. that doesn't change the fact that the car is just not attractive for most. while i personally can get around the exterior and maybe even like it, the interior is just a mess of screens and random bullshit. a car must have gauges, physical levers and physical buttons and zero (0) screens.
Drop a hippo in the street and tell me no one is gonna look at it
Was it the fuzzy purple one?
Edit: or satin or whatever that outside is
All reviews of this car disagree with you lol
I learned to form my own opinions like 20y ago lol
I’m just saying that the excuse of “they haven’t driven it” isn’t true. Those that have still disagree with you. Enjoy it!
Looks like a hippo. Fat, slow to manoeuvre but surprisingly fast. Does it weigh more than you?
Obviously
Driving one of the first for 2 years now . Liked my X7 diesel better , say no more. Worst buy of my life. Money pit. Can’t wait for my lease to end 👎. Drives like an elephant, looks like one too 🐘
A Porsche Cayenne Turbo hybrid is cheaper, drives better and accelerates faster…
Well to be honest, that car was on my mind as well but I’m so done with the Cayenne’s exterior design. I wanted something different.
Now I understand your choice and can’t hate it! Depending on your city, Cayennes aren’t special. For example, I live in Hamburg and I see so many Cayennes, even the Turbo GT, more than any type of XM.
Depending on the colour, the XM can look good, like your blue (my father had the M3 Touring and i7 with this colour, just beautiful). But I have one thing I don’t get about it. Why didn’t BMW offer a lot of the luxury equipment of the i7 for the XM? It costs more than an i7, and weight isn’t an argument. For me, the electrical doors were the best flex ever. It attracts more attention than a loud exhaust. (Maybe BMW updated parts of it. If I’m wrong, correct me, please.)
And what XM is it? The “regular” or the red label?
Yes, exactly, the places in Belgium where I drive around are full of Cayennes. And you can hate or love the XM’s design, at least BMW are changing it up from time to time. It’s ballsy and I like that. Porsche keeps playing it safe and I fear their Cayenne EV will be a huge fail (although it’s not that expensive). I have to agree on the luxury part, at least some of it. It has soft close, massage, heated/cooled cup holders, nice interior lighting, fantastic seats, etc. BUT sadly indeed it lacks the i7 lounge chair in the back with the screen from the top or the automatically closing doors. But at least I do get to enjoy the V8 compared to the i7. BMW EV’s are pretty damn good but having such an ICE under the hood is something else. At least to me. It’s the regular XM (not the label red)
It’s a butt ugly SUV. Whoopty-doo.
crazy how ugly bmw can make its new cars ;(
Dont do that dude
Do what exactly?
Buy it, it's one of the ugliest cars on the road.
I already did friend. I think it looks great :)
This sub doesn't actually like bmw, they just like crying and glazing 2010s bmws because it's all they can afford. Congrats on the new car, I like it.
Thank you! Everything evolves
Do you not have eyes?
A face that only a mother can love.
Lol
You could have done much better for the money. But congrats to you anyway.
Idk I got a great deal on it. And a X5M is a tax disaster in Belgium
Man I hear you. I bought an M3 last year and BPM was 50k in the NL. This is probably the last car I buy new tbh, I love it but I can't justify such an expense when I know there are thousands of used cars that could be just as fun.
50k is so painful… But hey if you can afford it, enjoy it! Life’s too short for hesitation!
Looks good imo. Enjoy your new car and don't listen to the haters 💪
Year 1 drove like shit; it could never figure out what gear it needed to be in and the hybrid cutover was not the smoothest. If BMW has fixed those issues, I would like the car.
The trans got an update early on, it was complete dog shit before that
Love the look hate the price tag. Hope you enjoy every driving moment in your new ride.
I will thanks! They aren’t cheap that’s for sure but I’ve gotten a great deal.
Of all the BMW niches, they should have stopped just before they did this one.
I hate they did the front like that it’s awful
Okay each to their own friend. I really like the horizontal kidney design though
Enjoy the new car, I ignore all the haters, the one who bashing the particular model YOU love and the one who says it’s overpriced blah blah, people need to understand the price of cars are what they are, everything has increased like it or not you have to deal with it, I can guarantee you it won’t be back to pre covid prices no matter how much they hate and nag about it.
Absolutely agree, thanks!
People are hating because it cost more than their 10 year old bmw. Nice car and congrats !
I have been passenger in this beast and I was flabbergasted the way it drives. Yes it can accelerate very very fast, but the handling? It drives like a M3 and its crazy cause its a heavy boat like 2.7 tons.
Updoot for v8.
Though admittedly I've never driven a bmw v8. Does that mean I can't chime in? 😉
Happy for ya!
Ofc you can! I just dislike people trashing the way it drives if they never drove it. Thanks!
Any particular reason you're switching from an i5 to the XM? Is it only the V8?
My wife has medical issues which makes it a pain to enter and exit low vehicles. That was the main reason. The V8 made my buy it though (over a X5) or iX.
Enjoy the XM!
But you can get a v8 in an x5…
Yeah of the new styles which I can’t stand any this is the least horrible but still…what they’ve done to all the bmw model lines make me love my older style more every single day. Plus mine rides and handles way better.
I can understand!
another of this Mad Max vehicles.
I like the way it looks but the one thing that bothers me is there are no roundels on the wheels. I like everything else, especially the power plant it has. I like it in all black on black on black. Is yours tanzanite or carbon? Interior?
It’s the lagoon blue with classic brown interior. Carbon black outside
Ya, carbon would be my second choice. Congrats on the purchase!
Thanks!
its important that you like it,
Some of the exterior designs when they were first being promoted were horrendous. Black with a red outlined grill, or red with gold stripes. The actual production models don’t look as bad, but what gets me is the fact that the base models don’t come with a sunroof.
It’s one of the most expensive models in BMW’s lineup and a sunroof isn’t even standard equipment. Doesn’t make sense to me.
Are you able to turn the grille lights off?? Because that would help
I think so but I would never turn it off
At least it’s a nice color combo compared to a lot of them (looking at you giant tennis ball with red accents <shivers>)
Yeah I must admit I don’t like that combo either
I think black is the best color for this car
Yes black is very nice but I just like this one a tiny bit more. Black would have been my second choice for sure!
I think it’s okay not great looking but not ugly IMHO.
Looks better in darker colors for sure.
Yes I don’t like the bright colors that much either
It’s your vehicle…so who cares what others think. I personally liked the prior model more so got it instead. But if I was to consider your model I’d get it in the same color. It’s an amazing vehicle. In spite of the transfer case frustrations we have loved ours
That’s absolutely true but I’m curious as to why people hate on it because I love it that much. What do you mean transfer case?
Found Dave Ramsey’s burner.
Have a 17 went to trade but their offer was stupid. Nice purchase
Thanks! 17? You mean i7?
I love the look, I love the interior, I don’t love that transmission when not in electric mode. There’s the hate as you mentioned, but there’s also good reasons BMW discontinued it. It’s kind of a lame duck at its price range / competition level. I’d rather have an X5 M60i or Competition but personally I do find a lot to like about the styling of the XM, just find the drive performance to be lacking.
Thanks for your input! I was pretty impressed while driving it but tbh I didn’t drive it without the electrical assistance yet so we’ll have to see about that. I love the X760i or X5M but they are a big nono tax wise where I live.
Ok!
Can’t share any new BMW here without being hated, just enjoy what you got, congrats!
There’s always going to be those, very true. Thank you!
Your concerns should be whether it is a good safe car and you like it, not the hate. The hate is just noise. The reality is that you will have to live with it and drive it. Enjoy the ride!
Thanks for your input, I will! The hate is not a concern of mine. Idc what others think about it as long as I’m happy with it. I do however like to exchange opinions
Broke ass haters man, enjoy it.
Haha that’s harsh but yeah it will have some truth for some. Thank you!
I never drove a V12 but it must be another level. Someday maybe. I get that, even a V8, is not the type of ICE to get in a car focused on comfort. XM msrp goes around 180k.
We say the same about the French haha. But in all honesty, there are A LOT of Belgian drivers who just stick to the middle lane which is a pain. I have good insurance so I will be okay I hope :) I’m more afraid of our tight parking spaces than our highways. People tend to just slam open their doors not looking or caring about the car parked next to them…
Honestly wasn’t a fan till I saw it in this color🔥🔥
Nice, thank you!
I saw 2023 xm for 80k that's a great deal for this type of vehicle
Sadly, not where I live.
Congrats! Very nice ride.
Thanks!
Enjoy mate, no version of an enthusiast community likes having a bitch and moan about what other people do with their money more than Reddit. Have fun.
Cool, thanks!
It actually looks really good in this color. This is the first time I’ve seen it where I’m not immediately taken back by it. Congrats OP!
Thanks, best color imo!
That’s fire bro is pre own or brand new ?
Thanks! Nearly new
Tesla truck says “ fight the hate “ brother
Haha yes sir!
It is SUCH a comfortable car, and the interior is incredible. I wanted it to feel more like a beast driving it than it did. It still drove very nicely and imo it's a pretty car. I hope you have many wonderful and fun miles together!!!
Thank you, I think I will!
Congratulations!!
Thanks!
Have had mine for almost 2 years. 20K miles with 40 miles plug-in range averaging 59.5 mpg over that time. Comfortable highway ride, silent electric runner in the city. Luxurious interior massage soft close audio system…got rid of a Cayenne GT turbo before this after 5 months and Taycan turbo S prior to that (fantastic vehicle btw). This is a great blend of the two. Efficient and powerful. Dark colors are definitely the preferred color palate to avoid harsh contrast with black trim pieces. If you need to carry cargo on the daily and enjoy luxury/power/efficiency…this one is hard to beat. Yes I think the design could be refined to please a broader audience but it definitely doesn’t blend in. Range rovers unreliable and bland, cayennes a dime a dozen and barely a difference in appearance between the various models. I’ve had an X5M comp…also harsh and needlessly waistful during 90% of driving. Picked this up with 35K in lease incentives. 15k miles a year 3 years 2k a month…really hard to beat for what you get. Oh and the back seat is extraordinary spacious and comfortable for those taking passengers….will no doubt be an excellent Uber Black when they start coming off leases. Just my opinion from one who has lived with it and many other alternatives.
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Thanks a lot for your insight. Makes me more excited than I already am! I feel the exact same about Range Rovers and Cayennes. You also have a nice color for sure! Is it the sapphire black? And the interior?
Gravity gray…has some gold fleck in it that picks up the gold trim on XM emblem in certain light interior is the BMW red/orange.
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Very cool, I never saw that interior trim, looks fire!
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Such a cool picture wow! Congrats on yours!
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No captions 😔😭
30k car in 2years
Yeah, never gonna happen.
If I’m gonna spend $180k on a vehicle. This is not the vehicle I’d choose.
I’m guessing you’d be in a Cayenne or Range Rover you see everywhere and all the time. Great cars but I wanted something different.
Hopefully you are leasing and your payment is sub $500
Lol, no.
congrats. enjoy it. sounds like you are really happy with it and that's all that matters. what random people on the internet, most of whom probably do not have anywhere near as nice or a car, think about your choice irrelevant.
Thank you, I will!
Nice its V8? Is that the X3 M? Should be thr S58 motor. I thought bmw stop making the 4.4L V8 in 2023
Yes sir, that’s a S58 right there. Same engine as the new M5.
PS: it’s the XM, not the X3M
What custom badge would you opt for? Any suggestions?
It's not that it's ugly, but it looks like a Urus, and those are Fugly, so by the rule of guilt by association, that's probably where that comes from.
Personally, I've seen BMW make far worse looking SUVs before so this is actually not bad. Great color too.
The Urus still sucks though.
Enjoy it and happy holidays!
Thanks! Interesting take. Happy holidays for you as well!
Why do Americans think that a crossover can perform like a car…
“I don’t get the hate it gets”
and then…
“Sure, looks are subjective…”
What do you not understand? I can understand that looks are subjective. But I see no reason to hate on it. It’s not because I like blue that I hate yellow.
No. It looks better than both, it’s more luxurious than the X5M and I don’t need to pay too many taxes.
You are not listening to me, neither the X5M nor the X760i are viable choices because of tax. And you said it yourself, it’s the perfect mix between sportiness and luxury while (at least for me) it’s the best looking car of the 3.
But hey you are comparing the XM to a EV so you don’t know better I guess.