My wife and I have always been into kinky stuff and using today but we are ready to go past the basic stuff. She told me she is ready for me to dominate her more and to be my cum slut. She wants me to spank her a lot harder than I have in the past. We are in a 100% monogamous marriage. Any advice as we move into the next stage of this journey?
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Go slow. Check in often. Read about what you plan do to before you do it. Watch tutorials on how to do what you want to do before you do it. Porn isn't going to help you learn it will just show you concepts. Know that it is ok for you to disengage even if your partner wishes you to push further.
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