Im a 40 Female and he is 36 male. He has had ED for 2 years now. It's killing me inside. I am super sexual and I am so in love with him, but its like his cock just won't get hard. I never dealt with this. He's only 36. He is mentally shutting down with sex which I can see why. I need sex bad. 😩

Im trying to be supportive. We see doc next week. Getting a ton of labs done...we have had some already. But its been 2 years of this. It's mentally fucking me up too. How do I get through this lack of sex??? It's wearing on me so bad. ..

  • He should have gone to the Doctor much sooner... most ED is solved with a single pill...

    It will probably be solved soon. Just a little more patience... Meanwhile... if he's open to the idea of sex toys in the bedroom... I mean.. why not...? It could provide some much welcomed release for you ;)

    Take care and good luck!

  • Cardio fitness 30km minimum a week and the more weight you lose the more testosterone you have

  • Time to start working out and eating right

    or working right by eating (her) out!

  • Update: today's labs showed HIGH prolactin !! So we looking at this

  • It can be caused by medication side effects, but it can also be a sign of medical illnesses, such as hypertension, sleep apnea, diabetes, etc.

    70% of ED is related to vascular leakage. They are a female urologists on Instagram and TikTok who post about it. Dr Casperson & Dr Milhouse

  • Head, lots of it! I’m against medication but viagra does work if needed.

  • Im having some of these issues as well. Look up penis sleeves. They come in a bunch of sizes and have supportive ones for ed as well. Plus it gives you options if you want something a little bigger sometime...

  • it may be diabetes type2 adult onset…or he may be turned off by changes in your vj’s muscle tone or scent etc.

    have you said things in anger towards him referring to being ā€œ limp ā€œ or ā€œ not satisfyingā€ or you showing attention to other men?

    a man’s libido is sometimes directly related to his perceived standing in his relationship with his lover…just sharing factual possibilities … no insults intended

  • 42 f my 45 m has ed from meds. Feb is the last time we had sex.

    Message me immediately!

  • Just for reference: a healthy erection should be as firm as a banana.

  • Did it start off as a curvature in his penis? If it did, he has Peyronie's disease.

  • you’ll probably enter menopause in a few years, right? how would you want him to cope with your biological and sexual struggles at that time?

  • Try sound frequency 40Hz and 9.39Hz for 3 minutes each multiple times a day