I have never measured the girth so I apologise if I'm not super impressed. I'm sure you'll do fine đŤŁ
ETA there was a similar post a few weeks ago, I'll tell you what I said back then.
One of my favourite people, an ex workmate who I fooled around with and basically got up to mischief with (we were in our 20's then) was a babe magnet. All the girls loved him and he was never lonely. Happened to have a micro but that's not what I think about when I remember him. I remember him for his personality and for the fun we had, the mischief and the pubs and live music etc. We also had sex.
Not at all, Remember that girls are not all like what you see in Porn.. Some get off really quickly just by touching them, Some by foreplay, some by penetration some by rubbing up against you, some even just by whispering in their ears, Thats the joy of it all everyone is different.
With Penetration find your angles, obviously depends on the size of the girl aswell i find the girl sitting on top be it on a bed or on a chair is great. plus you get have tits in your face.
Also, to state the (not so?) obvious as a two-time vaginal birther: it's not like the whole baby length fits in the vaginal canal at once man! Like the head starts coming out and the body is still in the uterus. There is a "wall" (the cervix) that during ALL non-birth moments does not allow penetration pass the cervix. Guys above 6" are very likely to sometimes bump a woman's cervix during sex, and that is typically not comfortable. Cervixes do not like to get bumped.
One time I was with a guy and went "omg I think you bumped my cervix??" 1) it was dark so I honestly had no idea about his size before we started and he never "bragged" or gave indication ahead of time, so I was expecting an average or maybe even below average sized dick â ď¸
2) he was not surprised but was kind/aware and asked if I was ok and said he's heard it hurts.
Through talking with girl friends and similar posts online, that size is fine but it's more of an issue when it's a micro penis like 2 inch and below. Maybe if a girl is used to massive dongs she will not be able to handle 4 inch but most girls accept it.Â
A wider 4" is definitely better than a skinnier 6". I have never heard a guy measure circumference until this thread, so now I have to ask my husband to out of curiosity. He is wider than average, and it's amazing.
Depends on what you're looking for dude. Are you looking to hook up with a bunch of women? Yeah, you're gonna get a ton of rejections based off just that. Are you looking for a serious long-term loving relationship? You can absolutely find a woman who is satisfied with that.
Wouldnât know but I will say as someone who rolls w a decent amount more, itâs really not about how long your dick is. First off, vaginas arenât super deep and sex isnât like porn where the girls are stretched out from fucking 12 inches when theyâre not even horny. Second, most women canât cum from penetration alone. Some can but usually they need you to stimulate the clit or the g spot, sometimes they straight up just need a toy because otherwise they canât cum, itâs quite literally different strike for different folks and it almost never actually has to do w how long your dick is
Put away the measuring tape kid and work on more important parts of yourself. Don't fall for all the bullshit creams and tablets. Be happy with your piece.
I got a good oral game. I've had a lot of repeat customers and satisfied reviewers. I am open to using toys in a ltr but size queens aint gonna get to that point.
I'm rocking 6 six inches of fury and it's always done the trick, but my understanding is that girth is more important than Length. I think if a woman is really into you, and you're a skilled lover, you should be fine.
4 should be fine enough, at 6 I couldnât get a girl to cum but she was 6â5â, I think their overall height moves the g spot proportionately. If youâre with girls in the average height to below you should be good
Yeah, Iâd say 5â8â and below should be no issue, to be honest I would still go after any woman youâre interested in. Some women canât even orgasm from p in v penetration, and sometimes being shorter helps the area above your d rub against their clit which can be the key to getting a woman to have a good orgasm. Just get in there are work your magic king
4 inch is just fine. Honestly I'd rather have a slightly smaller than average than a larger one because I have a condition that makes sex painful in certain positions and it's less of a problem with a smaller penis while feeling just as pleasurable. In addition, most women need clitoral stimulation anyway to be able to make it there and your penis size has no impact there. What matters over size is how well you can sync with your partner and read each other. I also believe that if you have a meh experience then you probably just didn't have chemistry with that person, it doesn't mean anybody is bad in bed or even less that their genitals are bad.
Edit: forgot to say that I would never ever leave a man over their penis. Maybe so if they refused to take care of it properly but even then there would be a conversation about hygene first and I'd only consider it if nothing changed.
Also I've never heard of any of my girlfriends ever complain about their man's penis and if I did I would seriously question my judgement in being friends with such a person.
In my experience length only really matters in so far as you need it to pull off certain positions, other than that it's a purely visual thing.
As others said it's the first few inches of a vagina where she feels it so if you're thick enough you're fine. The only issue is in some positions you need more reach like if you want to do it standing up or lying on your side (and also if she has a really big butt let's be honest).
Missionary or doggy works for everyone, cowgirl you might need a bit of extra length depending how you position it, you definitely need it for like hitting it standing up from the back or you two lying on your sides because the vagina is tilted downwards away from you, you have her thighs/ass in the way and when you bend over at the waist your thighs are also coming in front of your dick making it "shorter". I'd say for these two positions expect a good two inches of it to just stay out because something's in the way, so only what length you have beyond that is going inside her.
The old porn vs reality comparison. Turn off the computer and go live life. If your Johnson becomes the deciding factor in a relationship, itâs a relationship not worth having.
True, but I am quite insecure about this. I should have lost my virginity few years ago already and worry I am just stacking various flaws (virgin, short, short penis)
4 inches in length is the basic requirement to satisfy any woman, its not the length that matters, but its the stiffness that does, besides the duration, both can be helped by a combination of kegel exercise and hitting the gym for cardio or just plan jogging daily and improving your stamina, since women have a wrong perception of size matters, if you improve your oral and foreplay skills, women who've been intimate with you will be looking forward to being with you again and again, and along with all these things, you hit the gym even to work on your upper body, abs, shoulders, chest, you will not know which girls to meet and which girl to cancel or postpone, all this with your 4 inch lil bro, hope you understand what I mean.
The only minus is you want be able to some positions like standing, but you will be surprised that how many women prefer a smaller member, however the duration should be long, thats where kegel and stamina comes into play.
Look man, I'll level with you here, I'm packing a very average 9"x8.5" and I can say definitely that women will only be satisfied by my magnum sized, cube shaped pants hammer (I nicknamed it MjĂślnir). I've had sex with over one thousand women, both in their cooters and in their buttholes, so I know what I'm talking about as a sexy man who has sexy sex all the time.
I have no idea. I had a woman once tell me , âI thought It was all the way in, but it kept goingâ. So I am way bigger than 4 inches, so I canât answer your question, but your girlfriend might want to âmeatâ me.
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the first 2 inch in a vahina is the most sensitive. you can get them off with just the tip
You know too much đ
You will be happy to learn that women's vaginas are as different in size as men's penises.
I'm a modest 6.5"x5.5 and I've had women be in pain and I've had women where I felt my dick was in an empty cathedral.
Fun fact, I can say the same about assholes.
Just need to fuck until you find your match.
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That is close to my thickness, I am around 5.2". Are they happy with thickness at leas?
When and if you get a chance to find out, ask her (or him.)
Idk but I'm 7 inches and 1 in 3 girls I legit hit the back without being all the way in and half of those are in pain so it's pretty unsatisfying
I mean it's known too long can be a problem but I am on opposite side of spectrum
Isn't thickness usually more important?
It is đ
I am around 5.2 inches thick,
I have never measured the girth so I apologise if I'm not super impressed. I'm sure you'll do fine đŤŁ
ETA there was a similar post a few weeks ago, I'll tell you what I said back then.
One of my favourite people, an ex workmate who I fooled around with and basically got up to mischief with (we were in our 20's then) was a babe magnet. All the girls loved him and he was never lonely. Happened to have a micro but that's not what I think about when I remember him. I remember him for his personality and for the fun we had, the mischief and the pubs and live music etc. We also had sex.
You will be fine!!
Thatâs why I said larger. Iâve got both going on. I get âoh wowâ
Get her on Top.. Grind away.. and fine tune your oral game you'll be fine.
Does that mean they will be disappointed with penetration?
Not at all, Remember that girls are not all like what you see in Porn.. Some get off really quickly just by touching them, Some by foreplay, some by penetration some by rubbing up against you, some even just by whispering in their ears, Thats the joy of it all everyone is different.
With Penetration find your angles, obviously depends on the size of the girl aswell i find the girl sitting on top be it on a bed or on a chair is great. plus you get have tits in your face.
Confidence is key.
Have you tried paying for SPH? Some girls that rate will probably snicker at you for a small (heh) additional upcharge.
Yes, itâs not that fun being larger. Most are more than willing to try, but soon the complaints start
That's why i always ask women for their vaginal depth
Whats the echo levels down there?
i mean i'm pretty sure all of them should be able to stretch at least that far otherwise how do they push out a baby
so i don't really understand
How many times do you want to have sex. Vs how many times is a woman going to push out a baby?
Not to mention, one is a choice and the other is a consequence. Once the baby is in there is has to come out somehow.
Labor is a painful and hard process for a womanâs body, not a fun Friday nightâŚ
Also, to state the (not so?) obvious as a two-time vaginal birther: it's not like the whole baby length fits in the vaginal canal at once man! Like the head starts coming out and the body is still in the uterus. There is a "wall" (the cervix) that during ALL non-birth moments does not allow penetration pass the cervix. Guys above 6" are very likely to sometimes bump a woman's cervix during sex, and that is typically not comfortable. Cervixes do not like to get bumped.
Yeah but the achievement unlocked sound plays the first time you do it
One time I was with a guy and went "omg I think you bumped my cervix??" 1) it was dark so I honestly had no idea about his size before we started and he never "bragged" or gave indication ahead of time, so I was expecting an average or maybe even below average sized dick â ď¸ 2) he was not surprised but was kind/aware and asked if I was ok and said he's heard it hurts.
Through talking with girl friends and similar posts online, that size is fine but it's more of an issue when it's a micro penis like 2 inch and below. Maybe if a girl is used to massive dongs she will not be able to handle 4 inch but most girls accept it.Â
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A wider 4" is definitely better than a skinnier 6". I have never heard a guy measure circumference until this thread, so now I have to ask my husband to out of curiosity. He is wider than average, and it's amazing.
There are other options, learn to please with your tongue and fingers, include toys.
And get iral cancer? Nah
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Why are you here reading this thread bro?
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You mean that you found yourself? Good for you.
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Who did
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I've been satisfied by a woman with a 4 inch penis, it's no problem at all.
Wait..what?
Depends on what you're looking for dude. Are you looking to hook up with a bunch of women? Yeah, you're gonna get a ton of rejections based off just that. Are you looking for a serious long-term loving relationship? You can absolutely find a woman who is satisfied with that.
I am looking for something long term but I don't mind short term stuff
Wouldnât know but I will say as someone who rolls w a decent amount more, itâs really not about how long your dick is. First off, vaginas arenât super deep and sex isnât like porn where the girls are stretched out from fucking 12 inches when theyâre not even horny. Second, most women canât cum from penetration alone. Some can but usually they need you to stimulate the clit or the g spot, sometimes they straight up just need a toy because otherwise they canât cum, itâs quite literally different strike for different folks and it almost never actually has to do w how long your dick is
Put away the measuring tape kid and work on more important parts of yourself. Don't fall for all the bullshit creams and tablets. Be happy with your piece.
To quote Willem Dafoe in Born on the 4th of July, "if you haven't got it in the dick, you've gotta have it in the lick".
I got a good oral game. I've had a lot of repeat customers and satisfied reviewers. I am open to using toys in a ltr but size queens aint gonna get to that point.
Sucks but there is hope out there.
But often do you encounter size queen who reject you
This question is a bit pointless, since women most likely wonât ever tell youâre getting dumped because of your size.
Come on. Let the man fap to his endless quest for his SPH fetish
A good pose plus a good clit vibrator will do wonders. How long you last and the foreplay will be your winner cards.
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The goal justifies the means
What exactly would you do if you were told your penis could never satisfy a woman?
Remember kid: the penis doesn't stimulate her clit.
If a woman is intimate with you, she's intimate with you and not your fantasy of BBC. You should be licking regardless of dong dimensions.
I'm rocking 6 six inches of fury and it's always done the trick, but my understanding is that girth is more important than Length. I think if a woman is really into you, and you're a skilled lover, you should be fine.
Unfortunately I am still a virgin and I am concerned first few partners will be disappointed and dump me
Quelle surprise
I 100% heard this in Frasierâs voice
4 should be fine enough, at 6 I couldnât get a girl to cum but she was 6â5â, I think their overall height moves the g spot proportionately. If youâre with girls in the average height to below you should be good
So girls like <5'8" should be fine?
Yeah, Iâd say 5â8â and below should be no issue, to be honest I would still go after any woman youâre interested in. Some women canât even orgasm from p in v penetration, and sometimes being shorter helps the area above your d rub against their clit which can be the key to getting a woman to have a good orgasm. Just get in there are work your magic king
4 inch is just fine. Honestly I'd rather have a slightly smaller than average than a larger one because I have a condition that makes sex painful in certain positions and it's less of a problem with a smaller penis while feeling just as pleasurable. In addition, most women need clitoral stimulation anyway to be able to make it there and your penis size has no impact there. What matters over size is how well you can sync with your partner and read each other. I also believe that if you have a meh experience then you probably just didn't have chemistry with that person, it doesn't mean anybody is bad in bed or even less that their genitals are bad.
Edit: forgot to say that I would never ever leave a man over their penis. Maybe so if they refused to take care of it properly but even then there would be a conversation about hygene first and I'd only consider it if nothing changed.
Also I've never heard of any of my girlfriends ever complain about their man's penis and if I did I would seriously question my judgement in being friends with such a person.
In my experience length only really matters in so far as you need it to pull off certain positions, other than that it's a purely visual thing.
As others said it's the first few inches of a vagina where she feels it so if you're thick enough you're fine. The only issue is in some positions you need more reach like if you want to do it standing up or lying on your side (and also if she has a really big butt let's be honest).
Which positions do you think would work fine, which would be a problem?
My thickness is about 5.2
Missionary or doggy works for everyone, cowgirl you might need a bit of extra length depending how you position it, you definitely need it for like hitting it standing up from the back or you two lying on your sides because the vagina is tilted downwards away from you, you have her thighs/ass in the way and when you bend over at the waist your thighs are also coming in front of your dick making it "shorter". I'd say for these two positions expect a good two inches of it to just stay out because something's in the way, so only what length you have beyond that is going inside her.
Well I hope missing out on those two isnt too bad.
The old porn vs reality comparison. Turn off the computer and go live life. If your Johnson becomes the deciding factor in a relationship, itâs a relationship not worth having.
I am just afraid that will be large share of relationships
Good thing you only have to find one then isnât it?
True, but I am quite insecure about this. I should have lost my virginity few years ago already and worry I am just stacking various flaws (virgin, short, short penis)
Who says you should have lost it? I didnât know there was definitive timeframe. Stop self loathing and get your ass in the game.
I think it's expected by 18,19 maybe 20. After 20 it is unusual
4 inches in length is the basic requirement to satisfy any woman, its not the length that matters, but its the stiffness that does, besides the duration, both can be helped by a combination of kegel exercise and hitting the gym for cardio or just plan jogging daily and improving your stamina, since women have a wrong perception of size matters, if you improve your oral and foreplay skills, women who've been intimate with you will be looking forward to being with you again and again, and along with all these things, you hit the gym even to work on your upper body, abs, shoulders, chest, you will not know which girls to meet and which girl to cancel or postpone, all this with your 4 inch lil bro, hope you understand what I mean.
The only minus is you want be able to some positions like standing, but you will be surprised that how many women prefer a smaller member, however the duration should be long, thats where kegel and stamina comes into play.
Thanks, I hope missing out on standing wouldn't be too bad
No, it wouldnt, also avoid chubby women, especially pot bellied, or thic thighed ones too, not body shaming, but purely for technical reasons đ
Look man, I'll level with you here, I'm packing a very average 9"x8.5" and I can say definitely that women will only be satisfied by my magnum sized, cube shaped pants hammer (I nicknamed it MjĂślnir). I've had sex with over one thousand women, both in their cooters and in their buttholes, so I know what I'm talking about as a sexy man who has sexy sex all the time.
I have no idea. I had a woman once tell me , âI thought It was all the way in, but it kept goingâ. So I am way bigger than 4 inches, so I canât answer your question, but your girlfriend might want to âmeatâ me.