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when my fiance proposed to me, my mom instantly talked about divorce and how you never going in with that being a thought, but ahes been divorced twice so its something she needs to warn me aboht
like stfu, you cheated in both marriages, married one time because you got pregnant, married another because he was rich, literally never got married out of love, but clearly she knows how its supposed to be!!! like stfu i actually love him, youre getting married a 3rd time to a pedophile, you know nothing about marriage. shut the fuck up mom
so to answer your question: cishet people think theyll die if theyre not married for over 3 years when above a certain age
My husband and I are happily gay together. So many straights just are desperate to make life hard. They can't even have friends of the opposite sex! Literally straight people problems.Â
Yeah like I find it so weird that straight people canât have friends of the opposite sex. As a bi person myself I personally never automatically expect that a person would be a romantic interest simply because of their gender because I play for both sides. Therefore every person I meet is a friend first. I think straight people get weird about friends of the opposite sex because that person is automatically in the category of their preferred gender. But that doesnât mean that every person of that gender is someone who wants to date you or whatever. It sounds exhausting to see everyone through that filter. I feel like if more people adopted the âfriendly firstâ approach there would be a lot less torture in straight relationships when it comes to opposite sex friendships. PEOPLE CAN BE FRIENDS and if you get cheated on then that person isnât for you but thatâs bc they lied about that friendship, thatâs not because straight people of opposite gender canât be friends. That doesnât even touch on the fact that so many people are probably polyamorous but insist on monogamy due to social pressure and just keep cheating on their partners lol. I wish people would stop torturing themselves and just open their minds a bit about human dynamics đ
I literally aborted a coming out as bi to two friends of mine because that's how the conversation went:
J: so, she's with a girl nowÂ
(Me: ok, let's goooo)
S: ugh, I could never be with a bi person, I'd never trust them
J: Yeah, how are you going to trust them when they tell you "I'm going out with my friends"?!
(Me: abort mission!)
I kept thinking "but what about your boyfriends' friends of the opposite gender?" And then realized they didn't have any.
Epilogue: I have better friends now and S. has been cheated on anyway.Â
The irony of ur friend being cheated on anyways đ thatâs so biphobic Iâm glad you have better friends now. I feel like I would trust a bi person to go out with their friends more bc theyâre not always automatically looking for someone to date. (Iâm bi-ased, pun intended) It would be exhausting to see every person as a potential date lmao like bi people only are looking to date people they have interest in dating, not every person they see lmao. đ I donât understand why people donât get that concept when theyâre straight. Like if ur a straight girl you donât think every guy is cute?? The same rules apply?? đĽ˛
I think many straight people don't necessarily need to explore their feelings for someone in the same way LGBTQ people need to do (are they a friend? A crush? Do I maybe want to be like them? Am I horny for this person or romantically attracted, or both or neither?...and so on) so they automatically assume sexual/romantic interest if there's any kind of positive feeling towards someone of the opposite gender. Because that's what society constantly shows and rewards and normativities are the worst drugs out there...
Media plays a hand in this. In most pieces of fiction, if a man and a woman are friends, they won't stay that way for long. A woman is EXPECTED to end up with a man by the end of the story, so people view women in films as "which dude will it be?" This behavior translates to real life, as men now expect that friendship will only inevitably end in romance.
I will never understand this. Straight people are like another species to me and the more I learn the more confused I get. Why donât you have friends? Why are you scared of being gay? Whatâs wrong with telling your partner about your insecurities? What does it all MEAN?
Thankfully this is mostly boomer humour (and maybe younger conservatives). Millennial straights do seem to have cast off the âI hate my wife ha ha haâ nonsense
Straight marriage is the biggest scam ever: males who in fact benefit the most from it (by far!) are the ones who successfully make it seem like they're the oppressed ones.
Either these people can't seem to find a partner whom they can ACTUALLY love and trust, or straight marriage (aside from the legal benefits) is just an all around scam...
Yes, and deeply unhealthy relationships aren't restricted to the fetishised image of gay people you've developed. Many straight men and women love and support each other. Seeing as your entire recent comment history is nothing but ranting about straight people though, I'm sorry you're too damaged to see that.
Iâm not denying that gay people canât have unhealthy relationships, but I donât see gay guys or lesbians talking about how marriage and dating is ruining their lives or even joking about it, or talking about how much they hate the sex theyâre supposed to be attracted to.
You're literally so deep in the Kool-Aid you have repeatedly denied the concept of heterosexuality existing. You are beyond therapy.
You are a man that literally hates women so much you are not only deep in self-hatred about your own sexuality, but you are denying the experience of literally billions of women just because no-one wanted to date you.
I have never said this with more conviction than now. Touch grass.
If you actually took the time to read my posts, youâd know that I donât hate women at all, i just think that women cannot have any kind of attraction for men, and I cite my sources when asked and I have never been proven wrong.
I would hope nobody wants to date me because I donât ask anyone ever and I think going out of your way to seek out a partner is frankly pathetic behavior and we could be doing literally anything else.
Iâm almost positive every blind person knows theyâre blind, thatâs kinda a pretty important distinction they have actually.
âYou know you could just be asexual without making hating allosexual people your whole personality, right?â
Problem is, I am a straight guy, but dating women is inherently oppressive because it reinforces the idea that women are into men into the women who donât know better, and itâs bad for guys because theyâre setting themselves up for failure.
I always think itâs crazy when a straight couple gets married and they hate each other friends, interests, and fashion sense. I donât think they know what love is much less a friendship. Youâre getting downvoted but I think youâre right. There always seems to be so little genuine affection between straight people. Itâs a weird NPC behavior I have to remind myself theyâre real.
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Do straight people know they dont have to get married? And that divorces exist?
yes but the societal, family, religious, and/or peer pressure is very real
Some of them are ok! My ex husband is a straight cis man and we are best friends now. On vacation in New Orleans with him rn lol
when my fiance proposed to me, my mom instantly talked about divorce and how you never going in with that being a thought, but ahes been divorced twice so its something she needs to warn me aboht
like stfu, you cheated in both marriages, married one time because you got pregnant, married another because he was rich, literally never got married out of love, but clearly she knows how its supposed to be!!! like stfu i actually love him, youre getting married a 3rd time to a pedophile, you know nothing about marriage. shut the fuck up mom
so to answer your question: cishet people think theyll die if theyre not married for over 3 years when above a certain age
Most of them do, but we only talk about the coucou one.
My husband and I are happily gay together. So many straights just are desperate to make life hard. They can't even have friends of the opposite sex! Literally straight people problems.Â
Yeah like I find it so weird that straight people canât have friends of the opposite sex. As a bi person myself I personally never automatically expect that a person would be a romantic interest simply because of their gender because I play for both sides. Therefore every person I meet is a friend first. I think straight people get weird about friends of the opposite sex because that person is automatically in the category of their preferred gender. But that doesnât mean that every person of that gender is someone who wants to date you or whatever. It sounds exhausting to see everyone through that filter. I feel like if more people adopted the âfriendly firstâ approach there would be a lot less torture in straight relationships when it comes to opposite sex friendships. PEOPLE CAN BE FRIENDS and if you get cheated on then that person isnât for you but thatâs bc they lied about that friendship, thatâs not because straight people of opposite gender canât be friends. That doesnât even touch on the fact that so many people are probably polyamorous but insist on monogamy due to social pressure and just keep cheating on their partners lol. I wish people would stop torturing themselves and just open their minds a bit about human dynamics đ
I literally aborted a coming out as bi to two friends of mine because that's how the conversation went: J: so, she's with a girl now (Me: ok, let's goooo) S: ugh, I could never be with a bi person, I'd never trust them J: Yeah, how are you going to trust them when they tell you "I'm going out with my friends"?! (Me: abort mission!) I kept thinking "but what about your boyfriends' friends of the opposite gender?" And then realized they didn't have any.
Epilogue: I have better friends now and S. has been cheated on anyway.Â
The irony of ur friend being cheated on anyways đ thatâs so biphobic Iâm glad you have better friends now. I feel like I would trust a bi person to go out with their friends more bc theyâre not always automatically looking for someone to date. (Iâm bi-ased, pun intended) It would be exhausting to see every person as a potential date lmao like bi people only are looking to date people they have interest in dating, not every person they see lmao. đ I donât understand why people donât get that concept when theyâre straight. Like if ur a straight girl you donât think every guy is cute?? The same rules apply?? đĽ˛
I think many straight people don't necessarily need to explore their feelings for someone in the same way LGBTQ people need to do (are they a friend? A crush? Do I maybe want to be like them? Am I horny for this person or romantically attracted, or both or neither?...and so on) so they automatically assume sexual/romantic interest if there's any kind of positive feeling towards someone of the opposite gender. Because that's what society constantly shows and rewards and normativities are the worst drugs out there...
Preach
Media plays a hand in this. In most pieces of fiction, if a man and a woman are friends, they won't stay that way for long. A woman is EXPECTED to end up with a man by the end of the story, so people view women in films as "which dude will it be?" This behavior translates to real life, as men now expect that friendship will only inevitably end in romance.
I agree for sure
I will never understand this. Straight people are like another species to me and the more I learn the more confused I get. Why donât you have friends? Why are you scared of being gay? Whatâs wrong with telling your partner about your insecurities? What does it all MEAN?
"haha marriage bad" ahh photo
Mainly for tax purposes
If my wife made a post like that, straight divorce idc
Thankfully this is mostly boomer humour (and maybe younger conservatives). Millennial straights do seem to have cast off the âI hate my wife ha ha haâ nonsense
if they hate marriage so much, they can give it to us
HA
This woulda ate on twitter in 2012
based mutually toxic relationship or something idk
Straight marriage is the biggest scam ever: males who in fact benefit the most from it (by far!) are the ones who successfully make it seem like they're the oppressed ones.
Either these people can't seem to find a partner whom they can ACTUALLY love and trust, or straight marriage (aside from the legal benefits) is just an all around scam...
As an ally, 100% the first one, but with how some people are acting does the second option not seem that unrealistic lmao
Every damn time I think âwell itâs not like that about every one of themâŚâ but then I remember that Iâm also not straight
Why does anyone get married
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Wow. You're nearly as deranged as the people in the picture!
The only thing deranged about all of this is men and women staying together despite hating each other implicitly
Yes, and deeply unhealthy relationships aren't restricted to the fetishised image of gay people you've developed. Many straight men and women love and support each other. Seeing as your entire recent comment history is nothing but ranting about straight people though, I'm sorry you're too damaged to see that.
Iâm not denying that gay people canât have unhealthy relationships, but I donât see gay guys or lesbians talking about how marriage and dating is ruining their lives or even joking about it, or talking about how much they hate the sex theyâre supposed to be attracted to.
Grow up.
You're literally so deep in the Kool-Aid you have repeatedly denied the concept of heterosexuality existing. You are beyond therapy.
You are a man that literally hates women so much you are not only deep in self-hatred about your own sexuality, but you are denying the experience of literally billions of women just because no-one wanted to date you.
I have never said this with more conviction than now. Touch grass.
If you actually took the time to read my posts, youâd know that I donât hate women at all, i just think that women cannot have any kind of attraction for men, and I cite my sources when asked and I have never been proven wrong.
I would hope nobody wants to date me because I donât ask anyone ever and I think going out of your way to seek out a partner is frankly pathetic behavior and we could be doing literally anything else.
The grass is green brother, come join me.
Yeah, it's hard to convince someone sight is a real sense they can experience when they refuse to open their eyes.
You know you can just be asexual without making hating allosexual people your entire personality, right?
I'm not your brother and your side of the field is full of bullshit.
Iâm almost positive every blind person knows theyâre blind, thatâs kinda a pretty important distinction they have actually.
âYou know you could just be asexual without making hating allosexual people your whole personality, right?â
Problem is, I am a straight guy, but dating women is inherently oppressive because it reinforces the idea that women are into men into the women who donât know better, and itâs bad for guys because theyâre setting themselves up for failure.
I'm not talking about blind people, but it doesn't shock me that you didn't grasp that.
Sorry, bit of bile in my throat.
Literally billions are.
I'm sorry you're so absolutely undateable. Stop taking your miserable loneliness out on the rest of the planet.
Source?
I always think itâs crazy when a straight couple gets married and they hate each other friends, interests, and fashion sense. I donât think they know what love is much less a friendship. Youâre getting downvoted but I think youâre right. There always seems to be so little genuine affection between straight people. Itâs a weird NPC behavior I have to remind myself theyâre real.