I really want to ensure I’m not overthinking a situation.
On Friday (the last day before Christmas break), my coworkers and I decided to have a sleepover at another coworkers house. It was all women and I explaining to my man how excited I was to have an actual sleepover (btw the age range is 25-42).
I get to the coworkers house and one of our male coworkers show up. He explains that he is also spending the night and I’m slight put off because what grown man (who is straight btw) wants to spend the night with all women. I digress.
It’s been about 3 hours into the night and we’ve all have plenty of alcohol; we are playing a numbers game that is basically truth or dare. It lands on me and I say dare. Anyone can offer a truth or dare for me to do; the male coworkers speaks up so fast dares me to take a shot of tequila, put it in my tits, lay upside down on the couch, and take the shot; he says all this while laughing. I go “I’m not doing that”; idk I felt there was a sexual undertone in that dare.
I ultimately called my boyfriend to come pick me up and I spent the night at his house.
Was my vibe wrong? Was it more innocent than I perceived?
I looked at it and I thought "ok... personal finance... personal finance... personal finance...numerology, ok that's a bit woo woo... personal finance... hmm... weird post about ex...
The title gave me whiplash. I only ever look at the forums after reading, so I never know what I am going to read. The titles she gives, could go any directions
Teachers are essential but so severely underpaid that the people who would ACTUALLY be good teachers and role models go for a better profession. My wife is an English major with a distinction in Victorian/Shakespearean Lit, and she couldn’t teach because she didn’t spend four years on a TEACHING degree. Instead, she makes more money than a teacher working in insurance underwriting which has nothing to do with her education, and is also another profession that will take a GED as an education. I make better money than a teacher as a carpenter in the union and have better benefits to boot. They’re scraping the barrel at this point.
That evil evil man, interrupting a totally real and not entirely imaginary all-girls sleepover where everyone was about to pillow fight, braid each other’s hair and like, totally lez out while playing “truth or dare.”
“Teachers have a different definition of hanging out, if you’re a teacher you’d know” IDK I used to work in a school and teachers hang out by going to dinner, drinks, social parties or gatherings that don’t involve getting in your PJ’s and playing truth or dare on Christmas break….
See I actually did know a teacher whose idea of hanging out was very like OOP’s, but I think it’s just that any profession will have its crazies and presumably you will end up with them congregating at the, uh, less strict workplaces. Which likely makes them think it’s normal and skews their perception of their profession.
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Was I right to call my boyfriend? 31F and 36M
I really want to ensure I’m not overthinking a situation.
On Friday (the last day before Christmas break), my coworkers and I decided to have a sleepover at another coworkers house. It was all women and I explaining to my man how excited I was to have an actual sleepover (btw the age range is 25-42).
I get to the coworkers house and one of our male coworkers show up. He explains that he is also spending the night and I’m slight put off because what grown man (who is straight btw) wants to spend the night with all women. I digress.
It’s been about 3 hours into the night and we’ve all have plenty of alcohol; we are playing a numbers game that is basically truth or dare. It lands on me and I say dare. Anyone can offer a truth or dare for me to do; the male coworkers speaks up so fast dares me to take a shot of tequila, put it in my tits, lay upside down on the couch, and take the shot; he says all this while laughing. I go “I’m not doing that”; idk I felt there was a sexual undertone in that dare.
I ultimately called my boyfriend to come pick me up and I spent the night at his house.
Was my vibe wrong? Was it more innocent than I perceived?
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The post history is also something, though I’m not sure what.
Laughing at the ‘I get nauseous when I have sex with a specific man’ post title on spirituality like bro
At part the comments were reasonable. Basically, “Girl, you’re not into him.”
I looked at it and I thought "ok... personal finance... personal finance... personal finance...numerology, ok that's a bit woo woo... personal finance... hmm... weird post about ex...
...AH."
Nope.
Nope nope nope.
The title gave me whiplash. I only ever look at the forums after reading, so I never know what I am going to read. The titles she gives, could go any directions
Holy…..um that is a teacher? We’re doomed.
https://i.redd.it/g3gacvtdz09g1.gif
Teachers are essential but so severely underpaid that the people who would ACTUALLY be good teachers and role models go for a better profession. My wife is an English major with a distinction in Victorian/Shakespearean Lit, and she couldn’t teach because she didn’t spend four years on a TEACHING degree. Instead, she makes more money than a teacher working in insurance underwriting which has nothing to do with her education, and is also another profession that will take a GED as an education. I make better money than a teacher as a carpenter in the union and have better benefits to boot. They’re scraping the barrel at this point.
I don't know what a Chime boost is and I don't want to.
I didn’t look it up, either. My google history is weird enough.
It's just a dumb scammy online payment promotion. I keep getting them from a guy I barely knew in rehab years ago.
Ok, that’s essentially what I suspected.
“What grown man (who is straight btw) wants to spend the night with all women” should be a flair
You know they were making this story up then remembered gay people in media seem to enjoy spending time with women for some reason
Man that sub has turned into a cesspool of weird fantasies.
That evil evil man, interrupting a totally real and not entirely imaginary all-girls sleepover where everyone was about to pillow fight, braid each other’s hair and like, totally lez out while playing “truth or dare.”
There's not much I could imagine wanting less than a sleepover with my coworkers lol.
I don't even want to go to the office Christmas party
“Teachers have a different definition of hanging out, if you’re a teacher you’d know” IDK I used to work in a school and teachers hang out by going to dinner, drinks, social parties or gatherings that don’t involve getting in your PJ’s and playing truth or dare on Christmas break….
My husband is a teacher. He has never told me he’s going to a work sleepover. Dinner, drinks, some drink and paint stuff, etc., are normal.
See I actually did know a teacher whose idea of hanging out was very like OOP’s, but I think it’s just that any profession will have its crazies and presumably you will end up with them congregating at the, uh, less strict workplaces. Which likely makes them think it’s normal and skews their perception of their profession.
I knew a teacher who did sleepovers with her teacher besties who were also all sorority sisters.
Five years after graduation and they still talked about college A LOT.
why is her boyfriend's age important? FFS.
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