What am I even doing anymore lol. I was so nervous and have never done it before. No one else gives me attention. But he does and I think I'll do anything for him. It doesn't hurt as bad as I thought it would. I cant stop talking to him. He talks alot of crazy stuff. Like having his name tattooed under my chin and carving his initials into me. Please just tell me this is a bad idea to keep talking to him please.

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  • It's not worth it. You need to stop talking to him. This can only go one way, : BADLY

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    Yeah during lockdown unfortunately I saw people send videos of themselves cutting their arms to someone I knew and then he would go on to use those videos as blackmail to get them to send more. He threatened one girl so she would carve a swastika into her skin for no fucking reason

    He had a big exploitation group, I’m sure this is a common occurrence online

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  • Don’t talk to him anymore he’s a sadistic, abusive psychopath and it will only escalate. Cut him off and find friends who actually care about you.

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  • nona that's serial killer shit

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  • Yeah this is a bad idea

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  • Please block him you deserve better

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  • This is a bad idea and you should stop talking to him.

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  • Do not talk to him ever again

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  • pookie pls you need to block him this is definitely a bad idea

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  • im really sorry this happened :( go tell him to end his shit and block him i promise it’ll feel so cathartic and then you won’t have to worry about this again

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    If I block him I will unfortunately still have to see him Irl. We met each other through our local music scene so he's still gonna be there at shows.

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    You seriously need to stay away from him, he does not see you as a person

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    switch him down

    in all seriousness im sorry, i still think blocking is the best thing to protect your peace

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    Can I help you expose him for this? Fully serious, they should take care of him.

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  • 764 rapepoon 🫩 run nona!

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    Holy internet pseudo cult flashbang

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  • Idk if that’s healthy.

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  • horrible idea. cease comms

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  • Good lord he needs his devices seized and a padded room STAT

    In all seriousness, keep archives of what he’s done and what he’s gotten you to do. Either tell people what a freak he is or just keep everything on deck just in case something happens to you or there are legitimate threats on your safety or if someone else comes out and talks about how awful his behavior is you can help corroborate on his bullshit actions. Even if you ‘chose’ to do bad stuff like this and are aware of it being dangerous it still doesn’t mean it’s something you’re deserving of and please don’t let anyone minimize how bad this is. Don’t blame or hate yourself or allow people to trick you into doing so. It isn’t fair to you. I know isolation is hard and people want to claw their way out as soon as possible even if their means of doing so aren’t healthy but you need to remove yourself from that situation in whatever way would be safest. From slowly distancing yourself to a hard cutoff or protective order.

    It’s easier said than done I know. I’m so, so, so sorry and I wish you nothing but safety and I’m sure many other people, even if they don’t know you directly wish for your safety too. Once a precedent like this is set you can’t undo it. But crying and feeling lost due to being alone is better than being forced down a path that will eviscerate you for the illusion of connection that’s just existing around a person that doesn’t even give you basic respect.

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  • genuinely he sounds like a pos, there are people who can give you attention and even be mean to you sometimes if you want them to who won’t literally kill you later

    I kinda wanna cut this dood ngl

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  • St4t if it was based

    its probably a bad idea since ur doing it for attention not actual want though darling

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    I kept thinking of that one image where it's the dood beating the boymoder while I did it lol. He has also hit me but only After I asked him

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    you gotta end it darl

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    I know. Ill try I just hate not having someone else in my life.

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    u gei get it, i really do, but ull regret this later i promsie

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  • The mythical evilpoon. Don’t do this to yourself tho, he’s not gonna stop there. He wants to see you broken

    Does he have aspd or is he just edgy asf

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  • nonas stop trying to date abusive men please. find a guy that will treat you like a queen, and if you can't find one make one

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  • i know thats a horrible situation to be in but still iwtwm

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  • kinda hot

    pero Nona los weies (doods but in mexican) que son asi siempre es por inseguros. estos son comportamientos de chamaco, el wei esta tratando parecer tan edgy oscuro para compensar sus otros problemas un hombre no le pone ni un dedo encima a una mujer

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  • absolute bad idea to continue I understand the desire for attention to an uncomfortably extreme degree I have it too and it is taking everything in my power to not do a hehe haha funny 'need' post rn but genuinely I know its not that simple but at minimum you gotta find a at least slightly healthier person to associate yourself with to quench the desire for attention I hope you'll be okay

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  • Just block him. He sounds like a creepy weirdo.

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  • I think you should have a chat about boundaries, including boundaries around scenes.

    Like, talking about getting his name tattooed under your chin can be fun dirty talk. It's a bad idea to actually do it. You could do it with a temp tattoo marker or something for kink.

    Cutting on cam is...really iffy but it can potentially fall under RACK. I don't really recommend it bc scars are for life and a few minutes of pleasure aren't worth the decades of stigma, but you may reason you already have so many scars anyway it doesn't make a difference....and I don't know. I generally think when you're in a hole you should stop digging, but RACK (rather than SSC) is more about that fringe of consent and bodily autonomy in territory some would think is out of bounds.

    But I see too many times miscommunication in relationships where this kind of hardcore kink is being practiced and there aren't clear boundaries around scenes. Like I read about a couple that did CNC, which is fine, but there weren't clear boundaries around when they were and weren't in a scene, so one time the top raped the sub for real, the sub forgot his safeword because they weren't in a fucking scene, and the top thought it was consensual roleplay since they'd done it before and he didn't hear a safeword. This is why hardcore kinks should have a clear beginning and end to the scene. You should know if you're in a scene or not. Leaving it up to "vibes" causes miscommunications.

    If you know each other well, sometimes you can get away with dirty talk without saying "We are entering a scene now." I tell my gf I'm going to rape her and stuff but we've known each other for over a decade and she 100% knows it's just dirty talk. Anything physical should have clear beginning/end of scene though. You should also discuss what you want to do after the scene--some people like comfort, some people like a bit of alone time to decompress.

    If he gets offended or doesn't want to discuss boundaries, doesn't want to have boundaries at all, thinks you should read minds, etc, either he's a predator or he just doesn't have the emotional intelligence for this kind of relationship to work (with anyone), and you should leave him.

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  • stop talking to him, this is not good for u at all

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  • can i have him instead

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    No I'm going to keep him until he inevitably never wants to talk to me again ever after doing everything for him. Then you can have your turn.

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    fair enough :(

    i'll wait

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  • bro pm for a friend or smth ppl like that are the worst kind of people you can talk to.

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  • This is a horrible idea and is not at all going to end up okay :(

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  • Block him on everything, there are better ways to receove attention from actually well-meaning people, don't do this.

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  • giwtwm (seriously though, get tf away from him)

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  • Nah he weird as fuck

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  • Hot, but that's a terrible idea and you should stay away from him. There are guys out there (although not tons :\) who are stable and will do fun scarification with you if you actually want, without being total potentially-dangerous creeps.

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  • Don’t get with him. Even if it’s just a kink, better safe than sorry in this case.

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  • ive been there, this is going to go very badly. do not do this to yourself. cut him out please please please nobody should have to go through this

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  • Hot asf where to find doods like this?

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  • There are people who are gonna treat you better than this. It's not worth it.

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  • please dont do that

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  • Please, please cut him off. What he's doing to you is insanely controlling and abusive. He's going to hurt you over and over and force you to go through the worst things for him and when he's done he'll just throw you away. Please don't subject yourself to that, it's not worth it

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  • Please stop talking to him immediately, this is not a good idea at all and isn’t healthy 

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  • stop talking to him, you're seriously going to regret this in a few days. there are so many guys out there who would love to talk to you, this is not worth it!

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